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I have confusing feelings about my friend?

So I've been friends with this girl for awhile, about 9 months and we are very good friends. Ever since October we've got pretty close and hang out a lot but our relationship has never been based around feelings or sex. We just hang out as good friends, no feelings for each other and have never done anything sexual. Recently we've been hanging out more and more and for some reason I've started to develop feelings for her. She thinks I am a really grey guy and I think she is the most wonderful person in the world. I've always been very attracted to her but I never had feeling for her or intentions to pursue her until last weekend. We hung out all weekend and even cuddled on my couch for a little bit! (lucky for me! Lol) Even though I kinda like her, it's not how I like other girls. And even though she is incredibly hot I'm not exactly sexually attracted to her, but Im just so fond of her and think she is so amazing that I somehow caught feelings. I've never felt this way. Why am I feeling like this and what should I do?

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  • 4 years ago

    I love how you refer to these new feelings you are experiencing to something your caught, like an illness. Welcome to the wonderful world of crushes. You are feeling this way because you realize how special she is. She is suddenly more than a friend to you and because you have never liked a girl in this way you don't know how to label it. The beauty is it doesn't need a label. But you should tell her how you feel. I mean if she felt the way you fell about her, wouldn't you want to know? The bad news is that when you get older, it gets even more complicated.

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