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My girlfriend never initiates plans with me?

We been dating for 2 months but hanging out and stuff for around 7 months or so. I feel like I m always the one to initiate plans for us to be together and I m always the one to bring them up and make sure things go through. I mean she hasn t ever told me no to anything but I hate that I m always having to make the plans and be the one to see them through. She made plan for us to go do things about 2-3 times but every other time it s been me! I ve told her 3 times that I hate that I always have to Initiate things and she said she would start, so I took a step back to see if she would but she didn t and got mad st me when I didn t tell her when/ where we were going to hangout. I told her again at that point that I guess she didn t listen to when I said it the first 2 times and responded by saying she likes when I take control. It s to the point where I think I should step back because I feel like I m a bother to her or that I m not wanted enough for her to make plans to be with me or to even remind me when we do. I senna step back but I feel like if I do she won t do anything and we ll just text. Any advice?

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    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Why do you keep hounding her about making plans for the two of you? Did it ever occur to you that most of us females like it when a man initiates plans (cuz this is how it all works, my man).

    If she goes out with you when you make plans, then you're definitely not a bother.

    I don't make plans with my guy much at all. I prefer it when he initiates the plans. I think he does, too -- to be honest.

    Stop the whining and sniveling. She texts you. She agrees to go out with you. So she obviously likes you or she wouldn't do either one.

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