Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

I feel like I'm losing my Girl Friend, and I need some help?

I need some advice... I've only been in a few relationships, and they have all been very short. I am a sophomore in highschool, and am dating a Junior. At first, we both snapped each other all day and talked almost every night over face time.

It's now been a month since we started dating, and those things have stopped, I usually only end up getting 9 or 10 snaps a day from her (which isn't that much compared to the over 50 we would exchange earlier) and we have stopped face timing.

Is this a normal thing that happens in relationships? I'm scared she may already be losing interest in me already. She is a truly amazing girl and I really don't want to lose her so quickly.

3 Answers

Relevance
  • 4 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Every relationship you have and lose SHOULD TEACH YOU SOMETHING about being 50/50 with another person.

    Keep in mind, that NOT every relationship you get into is for you OR will workout forever. Relationships give you experience on Right and Wrong ones.

    Sometimes you or they will mess up and a misunderstanding could end you

    as a couple.

    Learn from these mistakes for YOUR NEXT relationship. I estimate, it takes most people 4 to 7 relationship BEFORE YOU KNOW what you are looking for in a "til death do you part" mate. That has just been my experience. I found out I want to be single... I want to date as many women as I can and have variety and stories.

    THAT'S JUST MY EXPERIENCE... maybe one day I'll meet "THE ONE" and

    I'll change my mind... MAYBE!!

    Even in a FRIENDSHIP Relationship. One of the BIGGEST mistakes people make with each other (not only couples) is not establishing communication and understanding. Usually one of the two doesn't want to make waves, so when there is confusion or a misunderstanding "a raging sea and massive hurricanes" take place between them and sometimes ends them both.

    You need to learn to talk and establish the ground rules for possibilities (like rumors, cheating, mistakes, misunderstandings, mood swings,

    personal space, burnout, boredom, porn, girl/guy watching, fears,

    insecurities, clinging and privacy).

    Taking a Break from Each Other. What does THAT MEAN TO EACH OF YOU??

    If you don't communicate and understand each other,

    YOU WILL ALWAYS Bump Heads when these unexpected things show up.

    YOU are NEVER suppose to accommodate people, you don't know very well.

    You are suppose to let "them" get to know who and how you are.

    They can decide if they want to be around you. Being a puppet, you might make people like you, but you have to keep being different every time you want to please everyone.

    NO BODY RESPECTS A PUPPET, because they (people) don't know how

    FAKE you will be next time or at different times.

    IF You have something to say or ask… do it.

    You won't happy "babysitting" people in your age group anyway.

    There always comes a time when the Relationship slows down and starts to come to a stop. Boredom is just around the corner.

    If you're done, then just let it go.

    But if you still want it... get ready to WORK and FIGHT for it.

    SILLY STUPID THINGS

    Do Silly Stupid Things that make her smile or laugh. You'll have her undivided attention and she'll know "It's all about Her". Example:

    (1) At different times, batt your eyes at her, like they do in cartoons.

    (2) Inhale deeply and SIGH at her in public or private.

    (like you really admire her)

    (3) Tell her that the best thing you like about her is,

    Her good taste in men. (referring to you)

    (4) Unexpectedly say "OHHH!!!", when she ask "What? or What happened?" SMILE BIG and tell her your heart skipped a beat when you looked at her.

    (5) Again, UNEXPECTEDLY and at any given time, say "People who Love me say WHAT." When she says "What?". Tell her you love her too. Then explain what you just said.

    Relationships, Companionships, Conversations, Making Someone Feel Special or Breaking the Ice, all require ONE THING. HUMOR!, and having smiles (fun) AND!! are suppose to be fun and memorable.

    Use these silly stupid lines at anytime and more than once.

    Undivided attention is NOT a one time thing.

    Making someone feel special should be over and over.

    ONE MORE. When you are cozy with her or at close range, look into her eyes and tell her "You Are "skip a heartbeat" Beautiful, to me."

    Even if she doesn't smile… Have FUN. She might come around.

    If You don't really know anything about her personality, she will DEFINITELY know your personality. One day you might get into a Fight or Break Up. You could use these same "Silly Stupid Things" to break the ice or silent treatment between you two. If any of this sounds weird, creepy, strange, desperate, clingy or stalker. But it works.

    Does it matter what it was? THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU.

    "IF"… You don't know anything about her personality.

    She might think its funny, sweet or unique.

    Being GF/BF isn't just a title, it's the way TWO PEOPLE are with each other.

    Even if the GF/BF title is never spoken.

    Making someone feel Special "IS" the Relationship.

    If you ever lose sight of that, you'll lose the relationship (your mate).

  • 4 years ago

    Dude. chill. You're only in highschool PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA.

  • 4 years ago

    Be completely honest with her about how you're feeling, like, "I feel something's wrong between us. Are we ok?" Be strong about it and if she blows you off, f_uck the b_itch, find someone else. Sophmore in Highschool, lol, I had a long term relationship only when I was a year into college, and only because we bumped into each other. Bro girls are stupid and self centered and flakes mostly till they're about 26 and then some. Don't wait up.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.