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Could I be being punished for not being a homosexual?
When I was a kid years before I got my first real kiss I would have "crushes" on other girls eventually when I was 16 or 17 I started dating aside from that first longterm relationship I have had no success the guys either just want sex or are kind of crazy controlling or try to pressure me into things ex. Having a baby anyways as I was raised in a strict Christian home I never acted on it. Since the Devil has rule over the earth could I be being punished for not falling into the trap or simply for ignoring it. It's something I still battle with. Please be kind I have heard all the "it's a fairy tale" I just need some clarity. I must be a rotten person or was and I just need to know why my life is such crap. I know it could be worst I could be ill or disabled or starving but in this moment I need to not be so sad.
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- Dr. DLv 74 years agoFavorite Answer
No, God is not punishing you. God is not angry with you, but you might be angry at God.
God loves you and has blessed you with many good things. You are counting the things you don't have, instead of counting the things you do have. People who are ill or disabled can still be happy and lead a productive life. If they can do it so can you. You just need to take steps to make your life a success. Perhaps you need a life coach. Have you developed a plan for your life? Your plan should be about how you will make a positive contribution to society. This includes getting the right education and training.
You sound like you are expecting a man to enter your life and that will give your life meaning and purpose. In reality, meaning and purpose is something that comes from inside you - not from a man.
- reme_1Lv 74 years ago
You are brainwashed from too much time in the church. It is BS. You need to read other books and talk to people who do not let the church's brainwashing rot their minds. You are very confused. There is no reason to be so sad. If you want some info from churches that accept gay people, ask the gay center. You might find the info you are looking for.
- Anonymous4 years ago
What? Not touching this one.