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is my guy friend mad at me for some reason?

my guy friend suddenly stopped talking to, i met him this year in uni and we got on so well. We would text everyday and hang out in the library, we had so much in common. He would occasionally flirt a little. A few weeks ago he suddenly stopped texting me completely, i would text him to just chat as usual but he would either give me really blunt replies making me feel he's not interested in having a conversation with me or he would leave me on read. When texting it feels like i'm putting in all the effort. When in the library he hardly sits with me and sometimes it even feels like he's trying to avoid me. I haven't done anything wrong so i'm clueless as to why he is suddenly being like this. there's a group chat with our mutral friends and sometimes he'd be talking on it and as soon as i join the conversation he would stop talking on it. It hurts because it feels like he really doesn't give a **** about me anymore. A little while before he stopped talking to me, i realised my feelings for him so i don't want to lose him as a friend at least. i miss what we had but i don't want to bring it up and make things awkward or look desperate. I'm scared he's just bored of me now. i have no idea if he's mad at me or what i did. what do you think? i'm mad because he's my friend and even if we're just that he shouldn't be avoiding me.

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  • 4 years ago

    nothing wrong with asking him IN PERSON, did i do something that offended u...See what he says but quit texting him cause he aint interested.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Because he wanted to date you, not to be your platonic friend. Because he didn't wanna be used for attention while you go spread your legs for other guys, thats why.

  • 4 years ago

    Maybe he has picked up on the fact you like him as more than a friend, but that's no excuse for such rotten treatment. You have two options, you could ask him is there a problem or you could leave him be and get on with your life. I personally would pay him no more attention because anyone who would just stop talking to me for no apparent reason is not worth my time.

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