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How much time is reasonable when a guy needs time to think? Boyfriend taking so long it's hurting my feelings.?

Boyfriend of 3 years and I talked about things we need to improve. He said he needs time to think but he is leaning towards us staying together. I suggested we not get together last weekend to give him time. It's been a week and he hasn't contacted me. It seems to me if he took time to think he would be done by now. Would it be bad to show up and talk to him?

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  • Orla C
    Lv 7
    4 years ago
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    It wouldn't have killed him to send you a text at least.

    No, don't bother contacting him. Focus on improving yourself instead - go to the gym, study, etc.

  • 4 years ago

    A week isnt long

    especially if he has work or school and normal every day things to be doing

    realistically, he probably doesnt have much "thinking" time and needs to experience life without you to know whether he misses you or not

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