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Am I annoying him?

I have this crush on someone. Over the past few weeks we have been on 4 dates. However, it s always the situations whereby he suggests we hang out very casually - "let s go for ice cream one day", "let s have dinner together" etc. He s always suggesting these but it s always me who ends up initiating the exact day, the time etc.

We also don t usually talk on social media, but when we do, I usually start the conversations and he replies. I m not sure if I m being annoying and clingy?

In May, he said, "let s go to the amusement park next month", and I really want to go too. Does he really mean it? Should I set up the date and time? Or am I too clingy?

Update:

I'm 17 years old

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Why are you afraid to be yourself? If someone doesn't like that you're being too "clingy," then they're not worth it because they don't value your feelings. It took me a while to figure this out, and I can't believe that I had to suppress myself to this girl who in the end didn't value me.

    Source(s): I'm a guy.
  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    I don't think you are being too clingy. If this guy wasn't interested in you then he would be initiating things. What I would say is that this guy is probably just hopeless at organizing things; some guys are like that and rely on the girl to plan everything.

    Source(s): Would you say that this guys comes across as being the organized type?
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