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I feel so deeply attached and connected to man that is not mine, and I don't know how to stop?

Sorry this might be long, but my anxiety over the situation is killing me!

I met the most incredible 26 year old guy at work about 7 months ago. I felt like there was this instant connection that hit me like a train. While there is a 6 year age gap, me being 20, that didn't stop us from becoming close. Everyone we work with noticed it right away, and I couldn't help but develop the strongest of feelings for him that I have ever experienced in my life. Over the past few months, my love and admiration for him has grown. I have the biggest soft spot for him, and he never fails to make me laugh. Our families are very similar, and our goals for our lives beautifully align. We're able to confide in each other, rely on each other, and calm each other down when things get rough. His presence makes my day, and I just have this odd feeling about him. I feel like he's just supposed to be in my life somehow, and I literally pray that we end up together. He's everything I have ever wanted in a man, and I would be so incredibly proud to introduce him to my family.

Update:

The thing is though, that we are not together despite having multiple people asking why we aren't. He makes me nervous because he's kind of a man whore. He talks about wanting to settling down, but I know he's not ready. I know him so well, and there are days where I become so negative about this situation. I tell myself regardless if we are together or not, I want him to be happy.

Update 2:

It can be incredibly hurtful when he mentions other girls, but I hold on hope for us working out. I love him regardless, but I can't take this anxiety anymore.I'm so attached to him that it makes me feel stupid. We can be apart, but I constantly think about him. I can just feel when things are not right with him, and to be honest I just need to know how to disconnect from him. I don't want to get hurt if our situation goes south, but based on what I'm feeling for him I am going to crushed.

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    I feel so deeply attached and connected to man that is not mine, and I don't know how to stop? Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite people to be healed inside their UFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer.

    Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)Moon 2)Inside fake mountain Kailash in Tibet 3)In lake Baikal in Russia 4)In Atlantis which is underneath the Mariana Trench in Pacific Ocean. There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets.

    Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old. He flies very fast; deceived people will say that "Christ is here; Christ is there". Sometimes, he wears blue robe over left shoulder while red robe is underneath. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He's surrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people to believe that he can do mountain moving and resurrection (using holograms); fire from the sky is easy (considering the gases from pollution in the atmosphere).

    Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). Police will microchip and isotope ray people on the highways. Microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, 666 is given. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell.

    If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you. Burn documents because they're from Satan. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. Forgive me.

    Source: Ruski Orthodox Christian Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Move on.

  • Ricky
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    If his married or has someone then good luck

  • 4 years ago

    Does he want to be your soulmate as much as you want to be his soulmate? If so, tell him you are falling in love with him and want to be with him for the rest of your life. This is how true love begins. Never put this feeling aside because it';s as real as it gets.

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