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Does it Sound Like He's Interested Based on First Date?

Im trying to figure out of this guy is interested in me after our date.. please help me figure out these little things he did and whether they mean he's interested or not

1. We were in our first date & he causally dropped something about a party he was at where he hooked up with a bunch of girls. It didn't really fit into the conversation

2. he would mimic things I would say, basically repeat them back to me. If i pronounced something in a weird way,, he would repeat it back in the same way... he did it a couple times, repeating a sentence or phrase I said

4. he kept wanting me to go into more detail about things I told him about, if I said something that was vague he would be like.. tell me more, what did you do, where did you go

5. he remembered things I told him throughout the date..he also remembered really small details of things he observed about me prior to the date

6. He kept telling me either things that reflected very poorly on him i.e. he told me about classes he failed or things that you basically wouldn't brag about to someone else

7. we stopped by his apartment to pick something up before heading out, and he introduced his roommate/best friend to me but like "Hey this is my best friend______" but didn't introduce me back to the friend

8. the date was pretty long, like 4 hours, but at the end he made some bs excuse about waking up early to get some work done.. which I felt was like a "ok its time for this to end" thing

Update:

with the hooking up thing I'm pretty sure he meant "make out"

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  • 4 years ago

    The very first thing gave it away that A) no or B) no, and he is trying to set you up as a hook-up. The later points don't mean anything other than he is a good listener. And, making an excuse to leave you doesn't help the case. From what you have laid out here, i would go with no. But, i would need to know more to be certain. You never know with these things bc you are only describing it from your POV. What i know is when i like a girl... i would never bring up that i hooked-up with "girls" unless i was purposefully making her feel unattractive to me (which guys do). And B, i wouldn't make a random "lie" type excuse to leave. I would say i had a great night but it's getting late or i have to go... no reason to lie unless again, i am trying to make the girl not like me on purpose. Guys do that to let a girl down in a nicer way, thinking, hey if i act like this she won't like me... So, idk, from what i can tell off what you wrote, i would say hit the pass button.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    ok

  • Moe
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    ...You really want to be with a guy who hooks up with a bunch of random girls at a party? Do you want to be that type of girl?

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