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I want to become a guy, but i still want to be a girl i'm confused?

I've never been comfortable with being a girl. when i was in elementary school i liked sports and shorts and pants i didn't like boy bands and high heels and i noticed that being a girl sucks because my parents are more strict with girls then guys.

my sisters always forced me to wear girly things but i didn't like it at all. when i went to middle school i noticed that i was a thing called a tomboy and it made me happy that there was such a thing i got along with guys more then girls but i liked girls more then guys, that's when i discovered bisexuality.

Time passed im in high school now and i decided that

i want to become a boy i like shorts and boxers i dont like make up and dresses I hate periods and having to sit down to pee.

i tried to flirt with guys but it didn't work out so well, i realized that girls are so adorable and guys are weird (no offense) but then again i want to have a baby but i want someone to have my baby as well so I've decided that when i grow up i'll have a baby but once I have that baby I'll turn into a boy.

I need help what do you think? (Sorry for my bad english)

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  • 4 years ago

    See a therapist, possiibly a gender therapist to try and get your thoughts in order. At the moment you are all over the place!

    You need to disentangle your thoughts on sexuality, gender, and personal preferences, they are not so related as you may seem to think. It's okay to be who you are even if that does not fit the standard stereotypes.

    Personal oppinion: I don't believe you are transgender (but I could be wrong), the people I know who are, have always known, there's no debate. I do think you need to try to be more confident about being yourself though!

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    1.) How old are you?

    2.) If you feel your not wise enough to make your decisions​ yet, hold off on it until the future.

    3.) You don't want to feel like you made a mistake when you transition, because detransitioning is frown on in the LGBTQ community.

    4. Do not let anyone talk you into anything out of peer pressure. Transitioning is a personal choice and your decision.

    5. Your choice.

    Also, feminine and masculinity are two different things. Being an lesbian and doing these types of things doesn't necessarily make others trans, but if you want to be trans it's your choice. Hope make a decision you feel comfortable​.

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