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Do you know any stories of couples that got back together after a bad/dramatic breakup?
I want to get back with my ex and even though that was a possibility back then... I ruined it with my post breakup clinginess despite being a good gf for two years:(
4 Answers
- JLv 74 years ago
yes I do know about a few couples that got back together after a bad break up, but guess what they dint last because the same issues STILL THERE, some times people get back with their exes for the wrong reasons. If it dint work out the last time what make you think it will this time?
- ?Lv 74 years ago
It would appear that not only are you dealing with this dramatic break-up but also being left on the shelve as the clocks ticking and you're not getting any younger. I'm personally not one for playing games, or usually one for telling someone to indulge in such crass childishly manner. However, that type of behaviour appears to be the "norm" while dating these days whatever your age is. Yet sadly, all I've noticed it's done is prolong and cause many couples to continuously not know where they stand in their relationships. Whatever happened to be completely honest/trustworthy and respectful to the person we've chosen to for now spend time with. I know that many electronic devices have somewhat hinder the way we actually communicate, albeit that they were invented to allow us greater access to one another. The moral of my reply is that, there are three stories to every break-up. Your story, his story and the true. Yet the true of the matter is that many of us enter into a relationship, but sadly want the freedom and shackle free life of somebody single. I know that sounds weird, but if it were not so, why are there so many questions relating to relationship confusion ion just about every category on this platform? Why grasp/pine/yearn for someone or someone that we know is only causing us heartache day in and day out? I know lets of stories of such woes and none of them ended as you'd like the one you're in now to end. That said, once you broken a bone it's forever weaken and constantly in the back of your mind, as the pain was one you'd rather not relive again anytime soon. So, why put ourselves through such an ordeal when we know our ex bf/gf/spouse has betrayed just about every ounce of trust we placed on them by constantly trampling all over your self-esteem in order to prove a point. What's love got to do with it? Exactly, nothing because if that's love I really don't want any part of it and neither should anyone else if they loved and respected themselves above all else. Maybe a little more than you asked for but I hope it helps you make the right choice for you and you only.
- HelenLv 74 years ago
Other people's success stories are not going to help you right now. You need to accept that it's over, and spend time with family and friends.