I reminded my ex boyfriend that today is my birthday, and he didn't reply my text nor wish me a happy birthday.?

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Is there anything I can do to get him to crawl back with the agony I've been feeling all these months and beg for my forgiveness and love?
I am dying here it's been months of angst after I did nothing wrong and he's the one punishing me like I was the one who cheated (he did), like I was the one who took him for granted (he did), like I was the ugly loser (he was, everyone said I was out of his stupid league), like I was the one who didn't make an effort (he didn't).
I am so hurt that all my efforts went unnoticed and he took away my youth, because it doesn't matter how "hot" I still am, I am now 32, and will be filtered out by guys, it's not the same as when you are 27. He stole my life and he HAS TO LOVE ME!!

Rose · Answer

are you serious - do you realize how stupid you sound - like by the way today is my bday..........he doesnt give a ****..get with the program and move on....he probably thinks you are dumb as hell for even texting him ........like omg i would feel like my ego went homeless .....he cheated on you and YOU want a CHEATER back in YOUR LIFE....... you just don't think you deserve any better --- stop being desperate and grow up

nonchalant_muse · Answer

"Is there anything I can do to get him to crawl back with the agony I've been feeling all these months and beg for my forgiveness and love?"

No, you cannot control the actions of others, you can only control the actions of yourself.

As others have stated, you are wasting your time trying to find a way to control your ex's actions and feelings. You can't. He will do and feel as he wishes, he is his own person.

Instead of trying to think of ways to control someone else, it's time to think about taking control of your own life. If you are miserable, come up with proactive ways of finding happiness for yourself (i.e. indulge in activities you enjoy, spend time with friends, join a self-help group, etc)

Amy · Answer

Wow and your 32? You sound like a 14 year old child. You haven't learned much about relationships and break ups i see you still have a lot of growing up to do.
He didn't text back bc he doesn't care anymore. You broke up and he's your EX now!
Move on bc that's what he did. He acted like he didn't give a **** bc he doesn't give a ****. He let you go.
May not be what you want to hear but your obviously old enough to know the truth.

Orla C · Answer

You're 32? Really?

I would have thought you were 14.

Cop onto yourself and grow the hell up. He's gone from your life.

chrisjbsc · Answer

He is your EX. Forget him and move on!

Alan H · Answer

Ex is ex.   Let it be ex

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

you posted yesterday asking if you should
you got 7 replies saying no
he has moved on, and you are the one wasting your life not him
he really isnt worth it, he cheated on you
isnt that enough?

Anonymous · Answer

Lols

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I reminded my ex boyfriend that today is my birthday, and he didn't reply my text nor wish me a happy birthday.?

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