How do the minority of people becomes so successful with love?

She and her husband probably have good attitudes. Besides, people usually only post positive things on their social media and you don't see how much hard work it is to keep a relationship working. Every person is on their own path and comparing yourself is just going to make yourself miserable. There are no guarantees in life. Perhaps you'll meet Mr. Right and perhaps not, but if you work on yourself and come from a strong, self-loving center it would be more possible.

In short, don't look for a guy to complete you. Be a complete person first and then you'll attract a man who's complete and giving and - by not *needing* it so much, you might be able to build a future together.

Good luck.

They put in the time and effort for a relationship and work on it. A relationship is full time not just until something difficult happens then quit

Well sounds to me that you weren't compatible with your husband to begin with, not much you can do there you know, it does take 2 ! Sorry to hear you are not happy

you do realize most FB posts are fantasy. they only give the good to make them look good before others

You're busy thinking about her and not focusing on yourself. If you love yourself, others will be attracted to that. It sure seems like you don't so they stay away.

Aw, poor you, call the whaaa-mbulance to take you to a pity party. Maybe the reason you can't get a guy to fall in love with you is because your tendency to compare yourself negatively to other people is highly off-putting.