Cousin Problem?

I used to play cards with my cousin and a few of his friends frequently

After a 2-yr break, his friend texted me to invite me to a game at his place which was a 2 mile drive up the road. I happily accepted.

I called my cousin (who lives an hour away) & he was getting a ride from another friend and they were gonna to be driving past my street to go the game. I asked if they could pick me up; I'd even buy them dinner on the way. My cousin said no without even asking the driver. I was puzzled and said they will be driving by my place anyway, and I'll walk home after the game. He still said no without explanation.

As the game got late I intentionally lost and told everyone I had to go. My cousin speaks up, telling me to wait so I can drive him home. I sat there to myself silent as my cousin continued to play. I got frustrated and called him out in front of everyone that he manipulated me all this time so I would drive him home an hour away after the game, that's why he wouldn't pick me up in the first place. He said forget it and another friend offered to drive him home.

The next day I called my cousin to apologize for my frustration and he was mad at me; mad that I would even suggest he would do something like that by using me, mad that I would call him out in front of his pals - He turned it on me. Thereafter he told everyone I was cut off of coming to any more card games.

I am a little hurt by this, and wondering how I should take this?

Thanks for listening