How do I lose my soft attitude towards life and people?

Youre a good young man. Doesnt have to mean youve lost your masculinity or manhood. There are big men that are gentle giants i know would break your back if you entered the Twilight zone. Or hurt children or the old or poor.Big men that dont like bullys or cheats. Please dont feel bad about that. Dont lose it, Just use it for good.

I appreciate your ambitious plan. It has high hopes and aspirations.

At this stage, you should pray honestly and sincerely if you want to achieve something like this in your life.

Think of a good excuse why you cnt help that person, maybe you will fell better rather than just saying no to them. I would continue to be nice most the time because if you do someone a favour most people will do it back to you, but you need to find the right balance.

Its sad that but im just the same as u

hm