I have a long distance boyfriend who is fantastic but...?

Hi

You can't know if you're going to connect or even feel an attraction to someone until you meet them in person. Attraction is all about human sex pheromones.. we are either attracted in person or we are not. There's no middle ground.

I wouldn't tell you to lose weight or judge you at all. But i will tell you that Atkins diet does work well if you stick to the plan. Lots of information online. it's a great diet, and since you're young, i'm going to bet that, if you stick to the diet religiously, you will lose up to 20 lbs in a month.

best wishes.

He is not your boyfriend if you have never met. Neither of you really know the other. Do not diet...mske a permanent change to your earring habits. It will take time but you will get there

You can’t lose 50 plus lbs in 1.5 months. Not even if you didn’t eat at all during that time. It’s not going to happen. Period.

You could lose 15 lb.s in that time if you were very diligent.

Many people who get along great on line don’t do so well in person.

Well if your personalities match and you get along great I don't see why you both shouldn't be able to stand each other just because of what you both dislike. If you both really want to make your relationship work you both must put aside your "dislikes" if I should say or look at the dislikes into positives for example thick girls have more curves and more butt to grab :3 while short guys you can easily cuddle with and don't have to be on your toes or look up high to kiss him. And in the end if things do not work out don't worry because you'll meet so many people in your life.