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How could I have been rougher without hurting her?
I asked the first, and only, girl that I slept with if I was good in bed and she said I was just ok. So I asked what issues did I have, and she told me I had to be rougher.
I almost always left her with a limp to the point she needed to hold onto the wall to keep from falling. How could I have been rougher?
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- ?Lv 73 years ago
It's not possible to become good at something just by having people tell you how to do it.
It's like you can't learn how to drive a car, just by having people explain to you how to do it. You actually need to practice driving in various circumstances, recognize your mistakes, and learn from them. That's the only way you can become good at driving a car.
It's the same thing with any skill, including the skill of pleasing another person sexually. You might learn a thing or two, if you do some online reading about how to please women sexually. But by itself this won't make you good.
And asking your girlfriend might help you, if you ask something very specific, such as what positions she likes, for example. But asking a general question won't help you much. Because this is like asking how to drive a car, when you don't know how to do it. It's not something people can explain to you well in just a few words.
