Why do men watch porn and lie about it? Do you feel its cheating?

Cheating is getting together with someone other than our partners, without our partner knowing, and having in-person sex with them. This is cheating and it's deceitful.

Watching porn is adult entertainment. And all men look at porn on a regular basis -- including your father. Why do they lie about it? Probably because they don't appreciate being shamed for what is their basic nature... it's natural behavior for men to look at females and watch porn, and porn has existed in one form or the other since the dawn of civilized man. Do you think the Ancient Roman Bath Houses were just for taking baths? If so think again.

And i have never seen a porn star or a girl in an online or a magazine image magically come through a computer screen or jump off a page to be with someone's boyfriend. These women have lives of their own and aren't interested in their audience.

Women who are all worried about porn and whether their man is watching it, are insecure women. And what's wrong with suggesting you and your guy watch it together? My guy and i do.

They are afraid of how the Girl will react, some are cool but the majority freak out over it.

Watching porn is not cheating but is a sign of inadequacy.

No self-assured person would need it.

Personally, I think that porn is awesome in a relationship when watching it TOGETHER. I hate to say it, but, I have issues with my husband and porn/masturbation. See, my husband will wait till I’m gonna leave for a little while or I’m asleep or in the shower and secretly watch. And he does it at work all the time. It really hurts my feelings because I am a very sexual person and want sex as much as possible. And I don’t get it as much as I’d like. I feel like when he masturbates at work than I’m **** outta luck for a couple days. So, it’s like porn is taking the amount of pleasure from me and us. And he lies about it. I’m like, hello!!!!! What about me??? And I’ve talked to him about all this and yet it doesn’t change anything. He says he won’t do it but every once in a while but then he’ll be doing it again the next day, ALL DAY LONG at work, looking at the ****. I’m obsessed with it now. Only because of the lies and I’m jealous because I want more sex and not getting it. I could go into more detail, but you get the point. I don’t know why it bothers me so much when it didn’t before. Maybe because I’m overweight I feel less desirable to him. And I’m in my late thirties and he only looks at the “barely legal”. So the girls he looks at are everything I’m not or will never be. I’m so angry and frustrated. If you have any suggestions or comments, please feel free. Thank you.

In my opinion, watching porn and masturbating to stranger women’s images is NOT cheating. But yest it could be called cheating to some extent if he is fantasizing about a co-worker that he sees at work every day. As long as he only watches completely stranger women that he never met, he is not cheating.

But lying about it is not acceptable. So why do they lie about it?

“Women Go Ballistic When their man Tells Them the Truth”

I think you’ll agree that this is a big cause of men lying. Men are different sexually but if you can’t trust him to be honest where will it end? You don’t understand why he keeps lying about it.

The answer lies within your question. Men lie about porn because they know how much you hate it, how it makes you feel and they have GIVEN UP about making you understand that not every porn-watching man is a degenerate sex addict. Most women too watch porn though to a very lesser extent but you also think of it and you can enjoy it and know more about his fantasies.

To be honest, if the guy is watching porn, you should move on. The relationship isn’t real because I wouldn’t bother looking elsewhere for sexual experiences if I was happy with the woman I was with.