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My Fiance took her own life 11 years ago, after discovering HIV, and I still can't stop comparing Women to her...?
...she was Asian, from Thailand, and did it to protect her family's Honor and name. She had just turned 20, and broke up with me 2 weeks before. I was 29.
It has been 11 years and when I look for women to date or whatever, I seem to only notice how different they are from her, and they don't measure up. How can I get passed this, I haven't been on a date or anything since? Starting to notice that I am getting lonelier. I am also a disabled ex paratrooper, who uses a cane. I am also concerned now that I am 42 years old, that maybe I am not attractive enough to start a new relationship, especially since most women that are available are younger.
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- samiamrdLv 73 years ago
You can compare others to her, but your only view is her as an angle. There are not many angles around, so you have to detach yourself from the idea that your going to find another 20 year old angle. You wont. Anyway, you need to move on and there are plenty of former 20 year old angles who are about your age right now who would love to be with you. The only thing that you have to do is say yes. So practice saying yes. And when you get to the point that you compare her to your angle, say to yourself that this is the closest thing to an angle that you can ever find, then continue dating that girl who loves you.
- Blue SkyLv 73 years ago
This has gone on way to long and I'm guessing you've suffered greatly. So my advice is to seek out some therapy or find some other way to move past this. Your still plenty young enough to find another mate.
