How do you have sex? Penis will NOT go in no matter what. I am 27 and still can't get one to go inside me?

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I've tried so hard all my life both with men I've really fancied and a few I have not. We have tried loads of lube, and up to 3 hours of foreplay.

I've finally found a guy I really like but STILL cannot get his penis in me. It just will NOT go in. I've never been able to do it, ever and I am getting old now and don't understand why.

How do people accidentally get pregnant and how do younger people do this? It is SO difficult. I am an accountant, I owned a small business, and I have really good grades, yet THIS is IMPOSSIBLE for me.

shroud · Answer

really need more detail about what is stopping you 
you could have a thick hymen that guys can't break - you have to have a doctor do it 
you could have a small opening - so that would be pain from stretching 
can or have you tried using a toy, does that hurt you or go in - how does the toy compare to you partner for size 
are you nervous - that can make your muscles tighten up so much a guy can't get in

Anonymous · Answer

You're too tense and too tight. Have you ever gotten a tampon in on your own? If you can get a tampon in, that's good practice for getting a penis in, you need to loosen your labia in the same way with a tampon as with a penis, except you need to loosen it just a little bit more.

Another thing to try is to get a full-scale dildo to go in. Try it out for yourself first. If you can't get it in yourself, then ask for help from the guy that you fancy. If you can get the dildo in, then your guy can try his own right afterward.

Ross James · Answer

Time for a trip to the doctor.

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How do you have sex? Penis will NOT go in no matter what. I am 27 and still can't get one to go inside me?

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