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Why am i so nervous?
I just got into university and it'll be my first time in co ed so that already explains alot. Anyways, i used to talk to this guy who is with me in uni on the internet (he doesn't know what i look like) and he asked me to introduce myself in real life. After that whenever i saw him, i was supposed to go to him, but the mere sight of him made me sick, anxious and nervous. Idk why. I never had this much problem communicating with a boy before. I started avoiding him. Then one day, i decided i don't have to interact with him and he seemed to forget it too amd the next day i was very relaxed i didn't feel that anxious around him, there was no change in my routine or diet that day. I am very sure that i do not see him romantically in any way. Also i didn't have that much problem with other guys but i rarely talk to them just the necessary and occasional "excuse me".
I also made 2 friends in a week (both girls)and can converse ok so I'm not anti social or bad at socialising.
2 Answers
- RosalieLv 73 years agoFavorite Answer
It's normal to say things you wouldn't necessarily say to someone in person over the internet.
It feels more private than it is. You also have more control over when you communicate. You've probably said quite a bit to this guy, and it's hard to match up that guy on the internet with the guy who is physically there at school. It's normal to be nervous- because you really don't know him.
Everyone is nervous when they first get to any new environment. Now you've made a couple of friends, and are starting to realize you're all the same. Maybe someday you'll be more interested in meeting this guy, or maybe not- people will float in and out of your life as you get older- that's normal, too. Until you're almost 30, many of your relationships will be for practice.
- ?Lv 73 years ago
There is just something about him that you do not like, and if staying away from him makes you more at ease, then I would do that, always trust your instincts, if something is not right, then don't do it, even if it means that not seeing him makes you happy, then don't see him. Trust your instincts. :-)
(((hugs)))
