Is this a polite way to reject someone?

What does "a chance" mean? One date? Two dates? Sleep with him? Marry him and have his children to really see his true beauty? You talked to him. That was his chance.

If you think he's the stalker type then I guess you have to lie a bit and let him down as easy as possible. Or become like Jello and absorb all his energy, not giving any back, until he tire's and gives up. Otherwise, be as direct as possible. "Sorry but I'm just not interested in you" If he asks why you can simply reply that you're entitled to like whomever you want and you DON'T owe him an explanation. Normally I would not recommend being so blunt. But it sounds like he's the type that doesn't take a hint very well.

just give him the old "i just wanna' be friends" line chicks always give to the nice guys, while they're busy banging the "bad boys."

Sounds 📣🤣 fine to me, I don't see why someone would ask you out on a day that has just passed though 😕

If a girl were to reject me, I'd prefer she be out with it, no beating around the bush!

What you said in quotes would be Exactly the right thing to tell him IF he wanted a relationship and you didn't.

It is Not a good way to refuse a simple date, which may be all he really wants right now.

The past is not always the best indicator of the future,

so don't let that "drama" interfere with what might otherwise turn out OK.

Give him at least one chance.

"You’re a really nice guy but I’m just not looking to get into a relationship right now. I wish you well."

You're answer is a polite one that lets the person down in a kind way. (You're smart to stay away from drama.)

May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money).

My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already) and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!

PS The best way to get to know a strong man without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service or a school organization.