Do you see a pattern?

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I mainly communicate with my cousin through social media lately, and I'm just wondering if anyone think any of these would make u think she is having marital problems, if any? She has been married for 11 yrs with 3 kids. If so, which one(s) raise a flag?

1. She doesnt wear her wedding ring in her photos anymore

2. She posts "gratitude" moments, recognizing everyone individually in her life (ie. sister, bro-in law, mom, dad, kids).... but not husband.

3. She frequently posts family photos during different holiday get-together. Includes everyone from her kids to extended family..... but never the husband.

4. She posts a photo of a fireplace. Comments underneath saying "current relationship status... hot. I can't wait to sleep beside my hot date tonight, lol.. #funnyhumor #relationshipgoals #hotdate #mypresentsituation

5. Valentine's Day she posts a humorous quote about having a date for Valentine's Day...Feb14th... then commenting that she hopes everyone enjoys the day (including herself)... #valentineshumor #singlelife #funwisdom.

She did recognize her husband recently by posting a pic of their son dressed nicely, and gave him credit for it... but referred to him as "his father" rather than "my husband". I also tried to ask if everything's ok and she was pretty bubbly and didn't come across like anything was wrong?

I dunno, what do u think?

Thanks

Anonymous · Answer

Well, photos without him often mean he was the photographer. We were looking at one uploaded bunch of Christmas photos from a couple years ago-- I took all the pictures, and never had anyone else take any-- So I look absent from that year.  She may be happy, thing is you should just talk to her using "phone" feature and have discussions with her person to person.  Social media-- people say what they want people to hear and can edit how they say it. Plus you do not get any tone of voice or inflectoin.

? · Answer

Well, you've asked, she's indicated it's OK.  This is a no-brainer.  Take her word, or attitude for that.  If there's trouble or change or both ahead, I'm sure she'll let you know, if she wishes to.

Faith · Answer

You can't judge someone based on what you see or do with them online. This is none of your business. Maybe her husband doesn't want to mentioned all over social media.

? · Answer

K. Well. This might be the real reason for the decline in social media use these days.

Staying connected with family and friends is great, in theory, but the subsequent addiction and realization that people are poking into areas of your life that they shouldn't be is a real problem.

Also, why are people so hyper-focused on women? That's not healthy for a culture.

sats · Answer

Mind your own business, as those who feel the need to get involved in other's lives are the ones who need to correct themselves.

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