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Is she a bad friend or a good friend?

So basically I have this friend who I've known for almost a year now and she is very secretive. All she does is keep secrets and then says "Don't worry about it" when I ask her. She also says "I don't care" when I try to talk about my problems for a change. It's ******* annoying. I hate how I trust her and tell her alot of things, but she wont reciprocate. She makes me feel insecure so I have to censor what I say so I don't get the usual "Don't worry about it" response. Not only that, she keeps secrets with my two best friends so I'm the only one who isn't in the loop. The only time we talk is to annoy each other. I hate being left out. What she does is rude, especially since I thought we were good friends.

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  • 3 years ago

    I’d say she’s definitely a bad friend, or maybe not even a friend at all. I’ve been in the same situation before, and I think the best option is to just cut her out of your life. If she is acting that way then she doesn’t deserve your friendship or kindness.

  • Glass
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    3 years ago

    It sounds like you two only consider each other friends because of your mutual friends. I don't think she's really interested in a relationship with you, she just tolerates you for their sake. Give up on winning her over and just be polite enough to get along. Do your own thing with your other friends and make your own inside jokes and stories.

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