Tamika

So basically I have this friend who I've known for almost a year now and she is very secretive. All she does is keep secrets and then says "Don't worry about it" when I ask her. She also says "I don't care" when I try to talk about my problems for a change. It's ******* annoying. I hate how I trust her and tell her alot of things, but she wont reciprocate. She makes me feel insecure so I have to censor what I say so I don't get the usual "Don't worry about it" response. Not only that, she keeps secrets with my two best friends so I'm the only one who isn't in the loop. The only time we talk is to annoy each other. I hate being left out. What she does is rude, especially since I thought we were good friends.

Hello. I normally don't write on these websites because I just hate the thought of seeing anyone else handling my problems, bur at this point I have no one else I can talk to. So, here I am; a depressed, social-anxiety having 15 year old girl who can't even have a talk with a strangers without those really uncomfortable long pauses that give me even more anxiety.

I do not know how to socialize. Not at ALL. I can't make connections with people unless my friend is with me, but I can't depend on them for much longer. My biggest fear is that they will leave me and I will end up being alone. I would probably be even more depressed than ever if it happen, considering I have NO motivation to change at all. Nobody in my family understands me at all. They think I'm just being emotionally and a sad little teenager, boo fricking who but that's not it at all. Im depressed. And I'm scared that they will just laugh at me and play it off like it's no big deal.

I am depressed to the point where I feel almost nothing. Everything feels like a clock. The people I see, the things I do, everything is just the same. I don't feel love, I don't feel pain, I don't feel stressed. I feel... boredom. Complete and utter boredom with how my life is and how uninterested it is. I keep playing scenario in my head that being in a car accident before I go to school would be a lot better than actually going to school.

I'm sorry but I dont think its sanitary to go down on your man, and putting that **** in your mouth. Sure it pleasures your man but thats nasty asf

Well, I'm afraid that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life because the only girls that get guys at my highschool are outgoing and not shy. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to talk to people about idle things when there's no topic. I am very awkward and sometimes say weird things, but never on purpose.

Hi, so I've been pretty sure my whole life. But in the end, I always managed to make a friend or two in my classes..so I'm 7th grade year, I literally had one friend in my class, but she was always hanging around the popular kids in my class so I almost never got the chance to hang around her except in one period. In my class, I was known as being quiet and shy, which was something I hated but I never did anything about it at all.. In the beginning of the year, I did try to make some friends but it was hard for me to keep asking if I could join someone's group for a project so I just gave up.. Why bother. You know? I always hated when I had no one to talk to in class or no one to partner up with so I gained depression that year and every day that year I was reminded that I had no friends and that I wasn't good enough so I lost my confidence and became awkward.

So now I have to ask how do I stop being antisocial?

I'm not comfortable in social settings if my friends aren't there. I will NOT go anywhere at school if my friend doesn't come. I stay quiet for some reason and I know I can say something but for some reason I hold my tongue and don't say it. I feel like I'm being judged and I hate it. I wish it wasn't like this

Im 14 and I'm in HS and I really want to gain weight. I weigh about 107 pounds and I;m about 5'2. When people try to guess my weight, they think I'm about 70 pounds??? I don't feel like I'm gaining weight at all. I look and feel the same. The only thing getting bigger is my butt, but I really want my boobs and my wrists and legs to get some of the fat too.

How do I make it so i can gain weight everywhere???

Most people who know me don't know that I have depression. It has been about 3 years since I've gotten it, and it is progressively gotten worst. It has gotten so bad that I had cut myself and it made me strangely.. happy. I think if my sister hadn't found out about my cuts that I would've still kept doing it. I think the most thing that triggers my depression is that I'm not like other people. I feel comfortable being at home playing video games then going out to a party or hanging out with strangers. I just want to stay home almost everyday, but recently my sister has forced me to go out and join a dance group. I enjoy dancing, but I usually find my depression stopping me from going full out when dancing since I'm afraid people will laugh at me and ridicule me from it. I also hate when we are finished with dance practice and we have to socialize. I only have my sister there with me and I usually just stand by her and her friends. There are a few people who I want to make friends with, but I don't know if they'll like me. I know I'm wasting my life by being this way, but I continue being this way I WILL kill myself. I'm just tired of being alone and tired of being pressured to being this perfect extroverted girl

Hi, I usually don't post my whole entire life on the internet, but I'm desperate for any help at this point. So, I'm in 9th grade, going on 10th grade and I only hang out with this one group of people. They are probably the only people I can easily talk to at school and if they aren't in any of my classes, I won't speak to anyone else. I don't know how to make new friends since I had my depression, but I still managed to make 1 or 2 friends who are my friend's friend. I tend to avoid social situations if my friends aren't there because I hate the feeling of people judging me as lonely. I wish I could somehow wave my magic wand and become social, but I can't. In most of my classes, I'm known as being the quiet one, but I can still answer people's questions no probably and only talk to people if I really need it. Whenever I try to have a conversation with a new person, I end up feeling comfortable if I look into their eyes for too long or just nod my head, pretending to know what they were talking about. And sometimes I end up not knowing what to say afterwards or what questions to ask. I'm worried people might think I'm boring. I find it much easier to talk to people younger than me because they find my awkwardness funny and they don't rely as much on the other person. I just want to know how I can change this because I want a boyfriend and I want a normal teenaged life where I can go to parties and not feel pressured

Hi so this problem started about a month or a couple of weeks ago where the video just starts pausing as if I did it but I keep unpausing it and it just pauses again and no its not buffering. Please help ;0

OK so I'm 13 and I haven't had my period yet, so when I went to the bathroom I saw ALOT of brown discharge on my underwearn ! IS it my period? Or is it a sign my period is coming pls answer

so basically I have this person I talk to in on of my classes. And she's so boring and annoying because she keeps poking me for no reason talking about how I'm short and stuff like OK I get it and then she copies off my paper when I'm not looking and literally steals some of my stuff! I can't ignore her forever because I have to work on some worksheets sometimes with her! So what should I do? Stay her friend or end it?