Guy with GF asking me to movies??? PLS HELPP?

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OKAY so my best friend, let’s call him Blake, has been best friends with me for a long time. We started falling in love with each other really fast, but there was a period where we stopped talking with each other for two months because of an irrelevant person. But, we’re back to friends and he has a girlfriend now who he’s happy with. She doesn’t give him much time in her schedule so the only time they see each other is at school or sometimes on FaceTime. Blake and I have gotten closer again and he’s very flirty and wants to hang out with me more. Last night he was walking me home from a friend bonfire we had and he asked me to go to the movies tonight. I still have feelings for him but I don’t want to get in between their relationship, I’d never want to hurt her. At the same time, I feel like we both still have a spark that started again. What should I do??? Please help, all answers are greatly appreciated!!!

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I think it's very admirable of you to not want to cut in between them and that you're thinking of the other girl. Lots of people become very selfish when in times like these and just act on their feelings.

If you guys still have a spark, then it's really up to HIM to make the move. Why? Because he's still in a relationship with somebody else. If he wants to resume things with you, he has to do the right thing and let her go. Otherwise, you'd witness your best friend cheating (at least emotional cheating) on her, and that isn't a good sign if you want to get with somebody who isn't consistent and honoring their relationship, because he can do it to you.

Go on with the movies, but no touching, and try to keep the topics basic.

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