Why do some people have such a tough life?

Life happens

Unfortunately it is a sign of the times. Often times today, people blame God for any hardships and trials they go through. James 1:13 tells us that God allows us to go through trials but he is not the source of trials himself. Job 34:10 further says that God cannot do a wicked thing. He loves us and would never place us in a harmful situation. He has a purpose for us and when his day is here he will demonstrate just how much he loves his people:

There was a time when i lost everything. My house, car, and everything. I had to slowly rebuild my life. I did have a place to live, but i wasn't able to do much because i had been in an accident.

Now? I can work, and took on two jobs. Finally got a car and i'm getting back on my feet. All this happened because i told myself it would. And i have had medical issues, too.

What we believe in this life, we make true. So if we believe we will succeed, we will.

I hope your aunt's life improves.

I wanted to know how she react to her life with her own words but not from your feeling about her.

She may feel pity of you who think of her in that fashion.

some people choose a tough life

Because they have something that they need to learn or experience.

“As the time approaches for rebirth, we go to a space where a number of bodies are reviewed that might meet our goals. We have a chance to look into the future here and actually test out different bodies before making a choice.

SOULS VOLUNTARILY SELECT LESS THAN PERFECT BODIES AND DIFFICULT LIVES TO ADDRESS KARMIC DEBTS OR TO WORK ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF A LESSON they have had trouble with in the past. Most souls accept the bodies offered to them in the selection room but a soul can reject what is offered and even delay reincarnating.

Then, too, a soul might ask to go to a physical planet other than earth for awhile. If we accept the new assignment, we are often sent to a preparation class. Souls join their assigned hosts in the womb of the baby's mother sometime after the third month of pregnancy so they will have a sufficiently evolved brain to work with before term.

As part of the fetal state they are still able to think as immortal souls while they get used to brain circuitry and the alter ego of their host. After birth, an amnesiac memory block sets in and souls meld their immortal character with the temporary human mind to produce a combination of traits for a new personality.”

Destiny of Souls – Michael Newton

{Information received from the past-life regressions of thousands of people.}

You cannot say why God didn't give her anything, no. That's wrong. You don't know what God gives things that are in plain sight or hidden. Only God knows. He never gives something empty, He always gives something. God brought this human, this aunt of yours into the world. She is His creation. Instead of praying for death to come quickly, she should be praying to her Creator for guidance and for His assistance. Only God can grant her wishes and increase her sustenance. God the Almighty, the Powerful One, Forbearing, Merciful, Loving, Fair God is testing your aunt in this life. Instead of focusing on the bad side of life or how her life is as much, she should be thinking about her Creator and complain to Him. Submitting to Him, offering prayers and asking for guidance, a way out. Only God can open many doors for His creations. This Creator of ours is loving, fair and kind indeed, His love and kindness is great. He understands your aunt's life very well, He knows how she feels exactly and only He can heal her of her difficulties or issues. His love is beyond than any love there is, it is more than your aunt's mother's love. He loves more than a mother's love. And He will be kind to whomever He wants, He will do as He wishes, and it is His will. This God also gives exclusive love to only certain people He loves more than others because they earned a special kind of love of His, they are the type of people that work hard for God, they do things that only please God and always seek for His guidance to do better. They always come back to Him for forgiveness..sincere forgiveness, they build their relationship with Him and the connection. They always strive in life, they thank Him for good and bad they experience. They only keep getting stronger with Him. Also because they understand His nature, how to win with God. They are never as forgetful or arrogant to Him. No. Those are the types of people God loves the most.

It is up to people that should be seeking Him, thinking about Him and seeking for His guidance. They don't realize just because you are living here on earth you won't be tested in life by God, no. Wrong. God will test them however He pleases but He will never give what one can't handle. NEVER. He only tests what His creations can handle in life and in order to pass them, is to include God in all of your affairs and striving for Him.

This life on earth is nothing, it means nothing. This life is not forever, it is limited, it is a test field and where people go is they will one day return to God. They will return to their Creator for He owns them and they will live in His final homes of heaven(s) or hell(s).

This life is to help determine where you or anyone else has earned from God. You only will be rewarded for what you used to do on earth.

So, when you say a tough life..sure it may be tough but NOT that hard..no. When one has a strong relation, a bond with God, faith in Him, hope in Him..life can never feel 'hard' because one always has God in mind and they feel at peace. They work hard through their personal goals with God, they show patience, endurance, and are loyal to God. They know they will be rewarded in this life if they obey God including the many rewards that awaits in the afterlife. So, if they do their best with the efforts they offer and sincerity for God, they know the reward will come for the hard work they are doing, and life will be better than ever.

Something your aunt should do and think about if she wants to get anywhere or change something about her life. Someone may try to help her or support her because they're family..yes, but it is also best to not forget the God who gave you life from the start and to seek Him as well than people more often.

They must realize how lucky they are that they have you. Express your love to them often and give them your cheerful company. Even though you lack sufficient funds to solve all their problems, set them the example of all the gifts in ordinary things, like hot drinks when it's cold, their favorite cookies and homemade soup. They may find themselves not so useless to others as they suppose.

You'd have to ask her about her decisions in life, where she feels she might have done differently. Avoiding the marriage? She'd have insight. Ask her. I think it could help her.

It was SO CLOSE to disaster for me, again and again.

I can only praise the Lord for mercy, me, a (former sinner).

I hope you can talk to her. See what she thinks.

Sometimes ppl COURSE others. Does she have enemies?

Luke 16:19-25 King James Version (KJV)

19 There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day:

20 And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores,

21 And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.

22 And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried;

23 And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.

24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.

25 But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.