If I don't like a vacation spot my girlfriend goes every year, how can I tell her I don't like it without hurting her feelings?

Don't be so concerned about her feelings, you have a big say in the matter, if she doesn't like it....she's not for you.

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you could say that you like to go to different places rather than to the same place every year. Have another place in mind and show her photos and where it is in the map. Pointing out where things of interest are . Things like, shops , restaurants, coffee shops , just to name a few possibilities. Say to her that you love to book one of the places you have found and be exited about it. She has gone to this spot every year, is she may be hesitant and unsure. If you show her enough photos and interesting things , and you are happy about it , I am sure she would give it a try. In a relationship it is important that you communicate regular and talk about differences in a peaceful way. Looking at options together and talking about thoughts and feelings is good to strengthen the relationships and get to know each other better.

Hello,

My husband and I go somewhere every year on vacation. We don’t always agree on the place where we will go, so we have to come up with some sort of compromise. Something like: I’ll go to ______ this year if we can go to ______ next year.

I don’t think it will hurt her feelings. I think it’s actually more painful to not say anything at all and not enjoy yourself than to tell her the truth. This applies not just to vacation spots, but also to anything you do in your relationship. As couples, we can’t always agree on everything, but we can come up with a solution that makes both people happy.

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Karoleigh

It's not her that you don't like, it's a *place*. Surely she can separate herself from that and not get her feelings hurt.

V