how do i get over a guy?

Even if you get a broken heart over a Bf or Guy you like that doesn't like you,

THERE IS ALWAYS THE NEXT GUY.

Why not talk to or Date, 3 or more guys. When 1 or 2 are busy or taken by someone else, you still have 2 or 3 other guys.

There are No Obligations in dating. Dating is just meeting people to get to know them better.

REJECTION ONLY COUNTS, IF YOU ACCEPT IT

Make your play...IF HE SAYS:

"I don't want to ruin our friendship." OR “I just wanna be friends.”

SMILE BIG, look him in the eye and say:

"Then don't “F” this up for me."

Or explain to him.

"We can still be friends if this doesn't workout.

Why would we HAVE TOO be enemies, just because we are not a match?"

You don't have to be enemies.

KEEP SMILING… He knows you’re right and You’ll look Confident to him.

Besides… getting to know people is how FRIENDS ARE MADE.

DATES are a good way to get to know someone.

Put away envying.

You institute total non-contact.

You give it time and patience.

Your attachment has the same brain qualities as an addiction, and withdrawal symptoms are normal . .it is your brain INITIALLY resisting the change of letting go. Stick with it, and it will get weaker. If you are not totally over him within a year, seek therapy.

Otherwise, take time and do NOT dwell on him .. not the past, and not the present.

To be THAT attached to someone .. is not very healthy. Generally it takes a psychologically-healthy female with decent self-esteem at least 6 months of steady dating before she becomes seriously attached.