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My boyfriend doesnt want me to have any guy friend and it sickening me.?

So here it is, i have a boyfriend and we are dating for 2 years in a long distance relationship.we only meet when we have our vacations since we were still a students.

So here is the scenario.

Im transferring to another highschool since im already Grade 11, i met all my future classmates and i made a groupchat. And theres a guy who join in our conversation with my friends in the groupchat and he is my classmate also. We talk eveything and that why my boyfriend become jealous. He feel threaten because he cant deal of me having a guy best friend because i never had one when we started dating and he also complain that he never befriended every other girls and he only talking to them if theres a apparent reason. he also sais that he is the only who worked out our relationship even its not.. I want him to feel secured and i want him to feel that he is the one i love... There are many things that change since we are dating for 2years i became too comfortable to our relationship. There are things that i do before that im not doing right now because i believe that even without that things we will still worked out.. Im so worried that our relationship will fail... My friends and classmates in the groupchat already know that i have a boyfriend and im open to it.. I dont know what to do...

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  • 3 years ago

    You LDR boyfriend is trying to steal your teenage high school years and experience. Frankly, I think you should both be able to date other people and live full lives and not put yourselves on the shelf because you like someone who lives a long way away. Like them AND require that you both face the fact that you are single teenagers and adjust your lives accordingly. Doesn't mean you don't care for one another and hope, perhaps, to live an adult life together YEARS FROM NOW when you are adults. But you are teenagers now. Single teenagers. And ought to be giving yourselves permission to act like it.

  • 3 years ago

    Your boyfriend needs to grow up. He's insecure that you'll leave him. Maybe he has trust issues from past relationships that caused this. I don't know.

    But it's stuff he'll need to work through on his own by talking to someone.

    If he can't trust you to have other "guy friends" and not cheat on him, this will become a bigger issue the longer your relationship goes.

    There may be a lot to love about him but it's him who needs to change in this case. Not you. And if he doesn't, you have to make a choice to either suffer never having another guy friend as long as you're together or walk away.

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    3 years ago

    It's hard, he is worried you will leave him but tell hin what he is demanding is ridiculous and if he doesn't agree, reconsider the relationship.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    Stop doing long distance relationships. It’s unfair to him and to you! Seriously you’re just using him for attention

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