U.K.) does she talk down to me in a bad way?

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I go to appointments fortnightly  with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the 
 interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet)  ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she  said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/  she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/

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Was this insulting personally?
I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
3 answers · Etiquette · 53 mins ago
How do I take this?
I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
Fashion & Accessories · 56 mins ago
Does she hate me and think I’m ugly?
I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
2 answers · Other - Skin & Body · 1 hour ago
U.K.) does she talk down to me in a bad way?
I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview... show more
1 answer · Other - Skin & Body · 1 hour ago
Does she’s talk down to me in a bad way?
I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous. who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I... show more
3 answers · Nepal · 5 days ago

Anonymous · Answer

GOD DAMN, NOT THE U.K.  GAY PHAGGUT   WAITER AGAIN. DON'T YOU EVER GIVE UP?

DONT FEED THE TROLL
DONT FEED THE TROLL

kelvin · Answer

no she thinks you need to see a therapist

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U.K.) does she talk down to me in a bad way?

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