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How would you deal with this situation?
My coworker and I have a more than friends relationship- it’s intimate. We hook up after work. The bad thing is that she’s married and has kids with her husband. But he’s mean like horrible to her and I’m not and I’m there for her. It just kinda happened. But we only get to see each other on weekends. Which is hard. I just wanna spend more time with her. I’m the other woman.
2 Answers
- Anonymous3 years ago
Leave them be
- ?Lv 73 years ago
I don't know how I would deal with this situation. It didn't "just kinda happen". It took effort on your part, and effort on her part. She is engaging in an illicit affair, and since she has a family, there are only bad scenarios going forward and someone is going to be hurt badly. Put the feelings and well-being of others ahead of your own selfish desires, and break it off. Do the right thing. She is probably not being honest about how "mean" and "horrible" her husband is to her. That's what cheaters do to try and justify cheating. There is no justification. She's more wrong than you are, but if you really care about her, you'll let her go...she is not available, and you're settling for far less than you deserve by being in a forbidden relationship with someone else's wife.