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Girls, to you, what is the difference between a creepy guy and a guy you want to be friends with?

I joined a singles club recently and last night was my second meeting. I struck up conversation with one of the younger-looking girls and we had a few things in common like we went to the same school, have math-related careers, and like traveling. By the end of the night, she was playfully elbowing me when we were sharing jokes and experiences. She was 31, I am 30, and she was gorgeous, and I like to think I am good looking enough to get a cute girl. We both came to the event alone. So, what is it that girls distinguish between a creepy guy and a non-creepy guy?

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  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    Dude it literally is based on how attractive he is. That’s the whole secret.

    If Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt said something sexual to a girl, and then an ugly guy said the same sexual thing to the girl, 8/10 girls would say Brad/Tom were sexy and dreamy confident funny and charming... and 8/10 would say the ugly guy was “creepy, weird, so forward, antisocial” etc...

    That’s just how it works

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    Firstly, at 30 seems like you could say "women" rather than girls as that can be construed as creepy.

    Secondly, a creepy guy would make inappropriate remarks too soon, get physically invasive, and/or making sexual remarks when he shouldn't...and never get the message that he's being inappropriate.

    A non-creepy guy would joke and banter, and ask for a phone number or a date, without being inappropriate and crude about it.

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