I'm tired of being alone?

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I'm 14 and a freshmen I just started school two weeks ago. Ever since 6th grade i've been bullied alot and haven't had friends ever since. I get super nervous around tons of people and get all choked up. At this point I just avoid everything that has to do with people. I don't eat lunch at school I hide in the bathroom. I can't work in groups. When people ask me questions I get sweaty and my legs start shaking and I can't talk. I hate it so much. My parents call me a "coward" for being scared of everything. They're right but I can't help it. I can't make friends so I'm literally the only one without one actual friend. I go all day without speaking. I created this alternate version of myself in my head so I just daydream all day but it honestly just makes me feel worse. I want to tell my parents but they'll just say i'm being weird or something but I think I actually need help!! I Physically can't make myself talk to people and its holding me back. I've even tried to kill myself last year because being alone and the bullying got to me. I tried to slit my wrists and overdose. I ended up throwing up the pills and I couldn't cut deep enough. Nobody knows what I tried to do that day. I'm thinking about trying it again because I'm so tired of being alone,.

lkl · Answer

You'll be okay, I was bullied, friendless, so I recommend talking with your teachers you relate to the most, and a councilor at school. Join clubs and groups that interest you. Your parents are bully's, you don't need that. Take care, you'll be able to get friends through teachers and your councilor.

Anonymous · Answer

You are 14 you don’t know how easy you have it

M · Answer

Your also good at making things as worse as they can possibly be. Stop, focus on one thing, get the noise out of your head. You must like something, arts and crafts, acting, photography. Pick something and get your self into it. You'll find other people who share that same joy of..... One step in front of the other a year goes by you would be amazed after one year.

Pearl L · Answer

nnaybe you should go to another school or honneschool to get away fronn those bullies

Coffee Bean · Answer

See someone you trust, a counselor or an online counseling service. Don't let the naysayers push you down! You aren't the only lonely person. I'm 15, also a freshman and I don't have many friends. I spend most of my free time at home, alone in my bedroom. I rarely talk to my cousin, who used to be super close to me. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. You are not a coward, you are most likely an introvert. Try making a tulpa, or finding more entertaining stuff to do like puzzles. If you don't like people, tell the principal and try to get smaller classes, and a quiet, less crowded place to eat. Don't cut yourself, it will just make it worse, and suicide isn't the answer. I used to cut out of stress. Masturbation and yoga can also help calm you.

Jeremy · Answer

Your only 14 years old man you got a whole life ahead of you to find friends. Instead of worrying if you will make a friend focus on finding something you want to do that will make you happy. Finding a hobby is a great way to make friends because you will have something in your life that other people love to do as well. I would also try joining some kind of club as clubs should be trying to get everyone that is involved in the club to be social with one another while they are doing whatever activity the club is held for.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds 📯 like me when I was your àgė
was à lòner all through Middle & High school
stíll òne to this day I0 years after graduàtîng GL.

Lenny · Answer

Don't worry man, I can relate to you. I am now 19 and in university and look at me now, still now friends :). Hey it'll get better you're living your youth but the best years haven't started yet.

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