In Methodist, is it still rape if it's marriage?

In decent countries, the law applies to everyone, regardless of their religion or marital status.

Of course. There should never be force of unwanted advances. It says in the New Testament not to deny one another, as in - abstain - unless for a time and both are in agreement of it. If one abstains forever without it being agreed, perhaps separation even divorce/annulment is called for.

The Churches do not define Law.

Break the Law, and it is the government that puts you in jail . .not the church.

The LAW says that it is rape, even if it is marriage.

its not nice. that's not enough?

of course.....consent matters

yes.

If sex is non-consensual, it's rape.

con·sen·su·al

kənˈsen(t)SH(əw)əl/

adjective

adjective: consensual

relating to or involving consent or consensus.

"he admitted to having consensual sex with two women"

Definition of consensual

1 : existing or made by mutual consent without an act of writing

a consensual contract

2 : involving or based on mutual consent

consensual acts

— consensually adverb

That's how fireball's 17 incestuous children were conceived..

If you had sex without consent, yes.