Asking a complete stranger out over facebook?

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so I have an app that allows me to see the people who visit my facebook page including people I'm not facebook friends with. A month or so back I noticed that there was an exceptionally beautiful woman looking at my page, and now she's looking at my page again. Ive never met or talked to this person before but we live in the same city. Honestly I feel like just messaging her and telling her the truth. That I know she's at least somewhat interested in who I am as a person because of the app. That I think she's exceptionally beautiful. And I'd like to take her out on a date to get to know her. At the end of that I'll say if she doesn't feel up to it I won't bother her again. Really I feel like I have nothing to loose because I probably would never just bump into her in real life. Who knows? I realize this is a weird approach but maybe its just ballsy enough to work. what do you think? Women would that completely creep you out or would you appreciate that level of honesty?

Foofa · Answer

Just send her a friend request and see where it goes. For all you know she's a salesperson scouting out potential customers.

Anonymous · Answer

Since you are using another piece of software to see who is looking at your FB page, that means you will pop up and she will feel as if she has been found out. That could be creepy. You also don't know anything about her- or if the person using that FB page is really her.

the whole thing sounds very opportunistic and leaves a lot of space for something bad to happen. And as you say, you apparently live close by. Perhaps you would be better off posting something that might attract her, if you know what her interests might be. But just materializing out of the blue could be  thought  of creepy, and could result in your being connected with someone who isn't a person you want to be near. It doesn't sound like "internet safety" at all.

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Asking a complete stranger out over facebook?

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