Girlfriend cheated
What now?

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My girlfriend had cheated about a month ago, not physically but emotionally, she planned to leave me for another guy but then they both decided not to do it. Now she’s saying she wants to get back with me and that she’s done everything I’ve asked of her since it happened. She called me crying saying how much she’s going through and that’s she’s desperately trying to show how remorseful she is, should I try and work through this with her, or should I cut it off with her?

Anonymous · Answer

This is fine.  I believe all people should be emptionally open through all relationships.  ( not physically)  if one falls in love with another, let em go be even happier.  Why would anyone keep anyone from the possibility of more happyness?

Ricky · Answer

Well you know what society will tell you 
To move on. But for me a cheater will always be a cheater. Its up to you its your life

Kit Fang · Answer

Are you going to have a happy, trusting relationship with someone who planned to leave you for someone else, and who is now telling you how awful a time they are having with no regard to how badly they have treated you? It sounds to me like you are her back-up option; the guy she was interested in has changed his mind, so she's come back to you, but you're not her first choice. Don't settle for someone who doesn't think you're the best person for them, because that's only going to lead to misery for you, and she'll probably disappear as soon as someone she thinks is better comes along.

Holy Vengeance · Answer

She sounds clingy and confused. I hate to tell you this dude, but you'd be better off politely cutting her off and if she doesn't take no for an answer, you should warn her that you'll get the police involved, and if she still doesn't take no for an answer, well then it's time to either file harassment charges or file a restraining order.

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