Boyfriend always whispers "helloooo ;)" to my boobs/genitals during sex and I m struggling to take it seriously.?

Put your hand on his mouth. "Shhhhh, I do not like that". Then follow it up with something sexual. Keep asserting "I do not like that, its silly". Though to make it more comfortable follow it with kissing or something. If he's not dumb he will get it. It might take 4-5 times.

Its not a big deal, hes a great guy, I guess? Right? If everything but this is amazing. "that's silly, I don't like it - shhhh". Use words you like... Grab my ….. slap my...… bite my...…. he is going to repeat the things you tell him. Its different from a puppy but not 100% different. Its "operant conditioning".

You can make it silly. Dance for him a moment before taking off your bra hand goes near or on his mouth "shhh don't say that, it makes me feel odd" or just "shhhh". Then he gets you.

If you want control you take it here. However, if you like him being in control just be assertive/repetitive and briefly mention it or put your finger on his lips "Shhh".

DUMP HIM!!! WHAT A PERV.

The longer it goes on, the more it will make you cringe. Until one day you cringe even just at the THOUGHT of getting into bed with him.

So if you want to keep the relationship and have it be a good one, you have to communicate.

Talk to him, face-to-face, sometime not in public and when both of you are getting along and relaxed .. and TELL him "I have a small problem, and I want to fix it before it becomes a BIG problem for both of us".

Then tell him what you have told us.

Finish up with positive reinforcement .. how you care about him, how you want this relationship to work, etc ... as long as what you say is genuine and honest.

You do the same thing to him. Pull his pants down and day helooooo to his co ck....lick slowly and say again...grab his nuts....say heloooo..put them both in your mouth and try to say heloooo again while having them in your mouth

the dude is freaking psycho. get out while you can.