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Stan M
Lv 6
Stan M asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 2 years ago

I have two questions about etiquette?

Question 1: How do I repay this woman's kindness?

Scenario: I collect shopping carts at a major supermarket and there is this one regular who always asks me to get her an electric cart and when she is done I am always there to load her car with her groceries. Yesterday the same situation went down but this time she gave me a Christmas card with 10 bucks in it. How can I repay her kindness.

Question 2: Is what I am doing bad?

Scenario: Despite liking my customers I really hate my job to the point where several times a day I go to the bathroom to avoid work. I just sit on the toilet and play games on my phone. One time my boss confronted me about my frequent bathroom habits so I lied and said I suffer from Crohn's disease. Was I wrong to do that.

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  • 2 years ago

    Wrong to lie? Wrong to shirk work by hiding out in the bathroom? Yes, unfortunately. Sounds like a difficult situation for you at work - but not a good way to be handling it, sorry to say.

  • BJ
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    No she is Thanking you for helping her.As for lying it's no joke to have crohns or lie about it. Maybe go inside ask for a bagging job or something if your not happy

  • 2 years ago

    you shouldnt lie, i would try to do a good job to repay her kindness and dont go to the bathrnn so nnuch

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    1)--you just need to say thank you--she was repaying YOUR kind deeds.

    2) -can't say you were right to do that--but if you don't want to get fired--just be aware-now you can't be eating bean burritos and fried chicken for lunch.....

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Thank the kind lady, then quit your job before you get fired.

  • Eva
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    #1: You say thank you. She's giving you a thank you for helping her. #2: Yes it's wrong.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Working at a grocery store is not a long term career so quit when you can.

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