I was dating someone off and on for about 2 yrs. I just left him 2 days ago and he is already with someone new. Did he even love me?

Off and on is your answer. Maybe he was glad to be finally rid of you.

We can't tell you that. We don't know him. Since you left him however and obviously didn't plan on being with him anymore, why does it really matter?

It's important not to get caught up with those things. Love is rare and I'd say most likely not. You have to he with someone for at least five years to determine if you love them. I know people will disagree with me but you always say you're so in love and then when you move in together and stress comes suddenly it's not sunshine and rainbows and you realized you only loved the hot happy person you met. Love means even on bad days you still want to come home and be with them.

Just move on. Don't be concerned with his activities.

The fact that he's with someone new already is enough reason to move on and not even look for answers or explanations.

Not on the same level but I was with a girl recently for about 5 months, but really, we were so close. We had a good connection, we laughed and joked together so much, it was perfect. The from nowhere we started having some little problems and we broke up. The following day she joined a dating website and went on a date that night.

We had had little arguments and kinda broke up before that over silly things but we always sorted it out quickly. Mainly because I was determined to keep trying.

Anyway, the dating thing changed it all for me. It made the last 5 months feel fake and it gave me the ability to walk away and not look back.

I understand, it makes you question everything but he, like the girl I was seeing, showed a side that tbh, you're better off without.

If you can, forget your question, move on and know that you're great by yourself and one day, at the right time, you'll meet someone that loves you enough to not even think about other girls for a long time should you ever break up.

People with the ability to move on like that are going to hurt you, either now, or down the line so consider this your lucky escape.

Sorry for being blunt but the fact that you came on here to ask the question shows you cared and still care more than him so, to me, you have a better heart and I think you will be happier and, like I said, be with someone better one day.

Focus on you for a bit. Just you. Make decisions for yourself, to make you happy. Treat yourself, buy yourself things and look after yourself :)

I hope that all means something, somehow...

Good luck with everything!

If you mean by "love" caring about you. Yes, probably until the end.

If you mean seeing a future with you, probably at the start but it faded.

Going on and off with someone is usually a sign that you both should be looking for someone else. The cracks that are appearing result in leaving eachother, instead of fixing them.

I suppose he saw a future with you for some time; but at the end - especially after leaving and going back to eachter - it became less and less. He and you probably could have felt this coming. He choose to already prepare for leaving you, and at the same time set up some contact with someone else. This is in fact a dick move and not honest towards you (he/you both should have left earlier) but it happened.

For the next time; learn from this and don't go back into a relationship that has this on/off stuff going on. First try to solve the problems, before leaving. If it's not possible, leave and keep it like that (for at least a long time). Listen to your feelings and know that this kind of behavior in a relationship isn't setting you up for something long term.

If he moved on that quick he was definitely cheating on you. He probably loved you from the begging then stopped .

Probably at some point he did, doesn't seem like he did recently if he just moved on that fast.

What do you mean "he is already with someone new"? Because 2 days isn't much time to get to know someone, let alone considering him/her someone special.