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Could it have been an emotional infidelity?
My bf and I have been together for almost 7yrs and we have two kids together. A few days ago I found out his coworker was expressing her feelings to him(thru texts). She said she care about him more than he thinks(Take note: she also has a bf and they live together).Anyway, they always text I ve seen it on ATT logs and calls too after his work (at his other job) sometimes past midnight I see calls(My bf is always in the garage playing w/ his phone or whenever he makes a phone call he walks out) According to my bf he never thought all the kindness he was showing would lead her to fall for him, he said he never felt the same with her and that if he did, he would have left me and our kids for that girl? But Im not sure wether to believe in him, i felt betrayed! Im torn! Before I can hold or see his phone and never seen a text from that girl because he always deletes them I guess? i mean why would he delete the texts if it was work related anyway like what he has told me!? That everythinf was work related? I need to get out of this situation? I cant sleep,eat think right because of this? You guys think he s telling the truth that no affair was done even if was just an emotional..
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- Anonymous2 years ago
He left you. Yes it is emotional infidelity . I’ve slept with married women before.. these girls sometimes just want excitement .. same for the guys.. him saying he would leave already if he did is TOTAL BS the reason being, is because he doesn’t know if when he jumps ship he has another one to land on. Aka this girl..I say let the man drown.. so they are both showing weak character. They probably have hooked up a few times I bet too.. your gut doesn’t lie to you. I promise you if I could go back and talk to my younger past self I would tell him listen to your gut your animal instincts aren’t lying to you. It’s a feeling that knows the truth. What you fear you attract but what you look at disappears. You’re afraid to lose your marriage of 7 years but wake up and smell the roses 🥀 sweet heart .. nothing lasts forever you FEAR your relationship over if You accept it.. feel the pain and cry and the betrayal.. you can come to terms with it. Trust me he’s bangin’ that girl I promise you..
Source(s): Sit him down and get serious . Look in his eyes and ask him seriously . What are you doing get emotional look in his eyes with each question you’ll feel his energy his energy cannot lie. Then curse him out and serve him papers don’t worry he’s cheating on you.. and the girl he’s with is cheating too.. don’t worry it won’t last if they’ll do it with you. They’ll do it to you. So those two will screw each other over in the end. Trust me I did this before.. I learned the hard way.. 😒 - VincentLv 42 years ago
"if he did, he would have left me and our kids for that girl?"
That makes no sense. He wouldn't risk his whole family just for a girl, would he? That's just an easy excuse like "see? I can prove nothing is going on because I'm still here" to get you of his back.
It's not normal to talk THIS much with a collegeau. He should explain to you why he has so much contact with her out of work and wtf is happening.
Also have a look at your own relationship with him. Does this need improvement from your or his side..? Don't only focus on your jealousy, it might have it roots somewhere in your own relationship and you both might need to open up and talk about it.