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How can I get to know her better?

Hi there, I’m a sophomore in high school and I’m also a girl. Right now there is this freshmen girl who I like and I want to get to know her better. Recently, I found out that the play I wrote in my performing arts class is going to be featured in my school’s playwright showcase, and she is starring as the main character! The other night I texted her and she replied saying that she was excited and that she really liked my play. I feel like this would be the perfect opportunity to get to know her better, but I’m

also a little hesitant to approach her in person. Please help? I really like her...she has such a sweet personality and the cutest laugh.

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  • tony
    Lv 7
    2 years ago
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    confidence is key,,ask the gal out, how can u get to know her better fearing to approach her.Since fear is created entirely in your own mind, in order to conquer this fear you’ll need to instill some different mindsets towards approaching women.instead of approaching women and thinking: “what can I say to get her to like me?” think to yourself, “what can I discover about this woman’s personality, interest, and desires during our conversation?”

    This will not only take the pressure off you to perform, but it will also make for a much more enjoyable conversation for her.

    “Remember, she’s a human being, not just a number, not just a name or a pretty face. So have a genuine sense of curiosity to peel away her layers, like an onion”

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