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should I text her?

I asked her out to dinner Saturday night, she said yes, but she said she supposed to be visiting with her cousins that day but didn’t know what time. She said she would text me today. Should I text her if I don’t hear anything back from her or play it cool?

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  • 2 years ago

    I don’t know if you’re female, but as a girl myself, I personally wouldn’t be annoyed if you texted. You could always say, “hey, are we still on for dinner?” And if she doesn’t respond, don’t text her again (that might irritate her). But if she does, that’s good!(:

    Most girls will ignore a text if they don’t want to hurt your feelings (or if they’re trying to make you want them more, which in my opinion is a bit dumb), and in that case, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

    If you don’t wanna ask directly, maybe just text her about something else that’s not relevant to the whole dinner thing. That way it’s not like she has to answer you, but she probably will. If she doesn’t, that’s when I’d ask her about it but be cool about it; it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t go to that dinner.

    Hope I helped, and good luck! ;) xoxo

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Maybe text her for something non related, to see if she brings it up on her own without making it seem like you're pressuring her.

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