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Relationship advice?

So my boyfriend of two years liked this girls picture. Wasn’t a big deal as I normally don’t care who he is friends with or who’s posts he likes. However, this picture was my friend (he didn’t know she was close to me) in a revealing bikini, in multiple poses. I still wasn’t too worried, until he followed her and voted on the meter that she was “hot”. I confronted him about it and he lied the first time saying he didn’t like the picture. After I got mad, he explained that the voting was an accident, but that he was sorry for liking the picture and how much he regrets it-blah blah blah. This normally isn’t like him at all, he’s quite loyal. I explained I’m upset and he says he deserves it, but he doesn’t want to lose me and is willing to rebuild my trust. And if i’m being honest, I don’t want to lose him either. It just made me mad that he lied about doing it. Do you think it was a legitimate mistake? Should I forgive him and try to make things better? Am I making this a bigger deal than it needs to be?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I am completely loyal.

    But the day I stop looking is the day I'm dead.

    It's the way we're wired. Men look. Don't put s in a position that we're defensive, just accept it! You could make major points by accepting this and maybe even asking your bf if someone is hot.

  • 2 years ago

    Honey, you've got to get your expectations in line. Men look at women. They talk with their friends about who is hot and who is not. That doesn't mean they are not loyal to their partners. If I were you, Ii'd worry more about a friend who posts pictures of herself in multiple poses in a bikini. She's likely to find herself with a creepy stalker.

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