How do I get my best friend to hang out with me more?

When I get a crush on one of my friends, THAT JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS, I treat her like a GF and always make her feel special.

She smiles and feels safe and special with me.

She starts spending a lot of time with me and close to me,

without knowing it, because she IS HAPPY.

All you have to do is WIN his Heart by making him HAPPY to be with you. You NEVER need words, you just need to treat him SPECIAL.

These are the Easiest and Safest approaches I have found,

you're welcome to try them out. Usually works.

To get a date without asking: INVITATIONS and ASKING for a Date are the same thing, but an invitation is easier to offer, rather than ask for a date. Writing a note and handing it to him or having someone hand it to him, will be okay.

Most invitations are in WRITTEN FORM. Texting also counts. (add ph# so now He has it)

Tell him where you will be on a certain day and at a certain time.

Let him know he is welcome to join you if he has time.

EXAMPLE: "Hi. I'm going to be at the park by the pond on Saturday at 2:30pm. You're welcome to join me if you have time. I will probably be bored, just feeding the ducks".

EXAMPLE: "I'm going for ice cream after school / work at (location), you can join me if you're not busy. My treat."

YOU WON'T HAVE TO FEEL EMBARRASSED if He declines.

It was just an invitation, NO BIG DEAL.

HOW TO BE WITH SOMEONE; ONE on ONE

Make wager (bet) with the person you want to spend time with.

Lose that bet to them INTENTIONALLY.

The wager should be something that puts you together alone and

away from everyone you know.

Make the wager something you can afford and non threatening

or too suggestive.

(an ice cream cone, a milkshake, a coffee, even washing a car)

EXAMPLE: "I'll bet you an ICE CREAM SUNDAE, I can say

the alphabet backwards faster than you."

Then LOSE the bet and take him for an ice cream sundae.

(enjoy your Date)

TO HOLD HIS HAND

(you DO NOT have to be on a date, you just have to be near him)

When you have been with him for awhile and are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take his hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile" He will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If he flinches and pulls away, chances are it’s a REACTION, NOT REJECTION. Smile and give him something of yours as a deposit/collateral and Let him know you want it back when you return him, his hand OR Ask him if he would hold something for you and pretended you have something in your hand.

When He agrees, PUT YOUR HAND IN HIS to hold.

TO GET A QUICK KISS. As long as he is enjoying himself with you. In the middle of a conversation, Smile and say: "Close your eyes, you have something close to them". When he does, Touch your lips to his. Not really a kiss, but it breaks the ice. Then tell him: "Oh, it was just me. You have soft lips, I like that". Keep smiling. Ask him what yours felt like, before he says anything. But keep smiling.

If you have experienced kissing or this is your first kiss,

YOU SHOULD KNOW, there is ALWAYS 3 kisses involved.

ONE: The way HE kisses You.

TWO: The way YOU kiss Him.

THREE: The way you both ,kiss Each Other.

(making it YOUR unique kiss)

Hate to be the one to point this out, but it would seem that while you consider this person your "best friend" he's got other ideas.