Why do guys lie to get sex?

1. He can't handle rejection

2. He doesn't have the confidence to be honest

3. He is desperate to keep score with his friends

4. He was taught that best way to get sex is to lie

Don't be a victim. State your intentions immediately too see if if he is genuine.

I think the field has been muddied by influence of Internet porn, which has become a "normal" part of the adolescent and post-adolescent male life. It cultivates an infantile mindset, the belief that a guy should be able to have whatever he wants whenever he wants it without having to do anything to earn it.

I would also say that you do, judging from your past questions, seem to have emotional issues that are causing you to attract guys who think and behave like that.

Same reason girls give sex to try to win a man.

Everyone wants what they want ... some are honest and ethical about it, and some are just self-centered. And it doesn't matter whether we are talking about men or women.

It is up to YOU (speaking as a woman, here) to take time to see how serious they are. Are they willing to wait for 2-4 months for sex, or are they ONLY interested in sex . .the ones who want sex won't wait around.

And love doesn't even START to grow until a couple has been partners for at least a couple of years. So the guy who claims to love you is either trying to play you, OR he is so insecure and needy that he will fall "in love" with ANYONE. Unfortunately "in love' is NOT love, never lasts .. and people who are insecure and needy cannot keep a relationship going once the infatuation phase has died out and the problems start.

As for "happy couples", don't be deceived. No one is perfect, so no relationship is perfect. And once the honeymoon phase has died out ALL relationships have struggles. It takes almost 20 years of maturing emotionally before the couple can truly BE happy together, and only 12.5% of them grow up enough for this to happen.

Yes, there will be moments of happiness before then, but also hurt, pain, anger and conflict.

“Newsflash: it's not the guy who determines whether you're a sports fish or a keeper-it's you. (Don't hate the player, hate the game.) When a man approaches you you're the one with total control over the situation-whether he can talk to you, buy you a drink, dance with you, get your number, take you home, see you again, all of that. We certainly want these things from you; that's why we talked to you in the first place. But it's you who decides if you're going to give us any of the things we want, and how, exactly, we're going to get them. Where you stand in our eyes is dictated by YOUR control over the situation. Every word you say, every move you make, every signal you give to a man will help him determine whether he should try to play you, be straight with you, or move on to the next woman to do a little more sport fishing.”

― Steve Harvey, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment “

I suggest you read the book. In the meantime, understand that if you have not learned how to be happy single, have not learned how to feel confident about supporting yourself and handling life on your own, and have not learned to LIKE your own company and relax about your flaws ..

If you have not learned these things, then your desire for a relationship will always be from a base of neediness. And players LOOK for the subtle signals of neediness (everyone is always giving off subliminal signals about themselves) . .the hone in and play the needy women.

if you weren't needy, you wouldn't feel such a strong need to please them, but could instead wait and see if THEY are worthy of YOU.

Well women do the same thing pretend they will do lots sex acts to get men to spend all their money!

What you want to do is hold off sex for at least 3 months no man can fake it for a month!

uh................

to get sex