Amzy

We went on our first date, it went well and we kissed. He said he wants me to meet his friends sometime. That night he said we should meet up again after I’ve done my assessments as I’m kinda busy. The next few days he went quiet, said a few sentences but he’d message me first then just ignore me, I just assumed he’s not a big texter. Today I asked him if he’s free this week to meet up as he’s off work and told me he didn’t have plans last week. All of a sudden he’s told me ‘I’ve already got plans those days, maybe next week’ so I replied ‘okay, if you don’t want to meet up again that’s fine you can tell me’ and he ignored me so I’m assuming he has no intention of seeing me again as he only said ‘maybe next week’ and made no effort to respond to me. I’d rather he was honest. Some of my friends think he’s playing hard to get but I think he’s lost interest? Is he ghosting me or playing hard to get?

We went on our first date, it went well and we kissed. He said he wants me to meet his friends sometime. That night he said we should meet up again after I’ve done my assessments as I’m kinda busy. The next few days he went quiet, said a few sentences but he’d message me first then just ignore me, I just assumed he’s not a big texter. Today I asked him if he’s free this week to meet up as he’s off work and told me he didn’t have plans last week. All of a sudden he’s told me ‘I’ve already got plans those days, maybe next week’ so I replied ‘okay, if you don’t want to meet up again that’s fine you can tell me’ and he ignored me so I’m assuming he has no intention of seeing me again as he only said ‘maybe next week’ and made no effort to respond to me. I’d rather he was honest. Some of my friends think he’s playing hard to get but I think he’s lost interest? Is he ghosting me or playing hard to get?

We went on our first date yesterday. He was meant to go see his football team play - he said he never misses a game but wanted to see me. He took me out for dinner and paid for it, I offered to pay my half. He also said that next week I should come on a night out with him and meet his friends. He kept touching my hands. We also had our first kiss on our first date but nothing else. He said he wants to see me again but he doesn’t message me much. We do get on in person but it annoys me the fact he sometimes ignores my messages and only replies a few times a day maybe I’m making a big deal but I do like someone to text throughout the day, it lets me know I’m on his mind and vice versa. Maybe I’m being too harsh I just don’t know if he does like me...? 

This guy and I used to message each other every day, it was 50/50 who messaged first and he opened up to me about how he has issues getting close to people and is more reserved now because of a past relationship and losing a close family member last year. We got on so well then out of the blue he messaged me ‘I’m not really thinking about anything at the moment, things change’ I seen him out at the weekend and he started opening up to me again, said he doesn’t feel like he can commit to a relationship with any girl and that the problem lies with  him. He said it’s gonna take a lot for someone to make him want to commit. We made out and things got quite heated... he’s really family oriented doesn’t strike me as the type who’s just out for sex, he said he hasn’t been brought up that way. People that know him think he’s putting on a front trying to act tough so he doesn’t get hurt again when really he wants to be with someone and someone to comfort him. I just don’t know what to do now?? we’ve been talking quite a bit again but I don’t want to push him away from me, he opens up to me about personal stuff then he’ll disappear for a bit then come back again. Am I wasting my time here or should I keep trying? I really don’t know what to do, we have such a good connection at times when he doesn’t shut me out

We used to talk every day, he opened up to me then out blue told me that he has trouble getting close to anyone cos of the past and he pushes people away. He told me he doesn’t know what he wants right now and doesn’t want a relationship. We both had a drink and had sex, he kept asking me to stay the night but I left as I thought he’d regret asking me to stay in the morning with him not wanting anything serious. He said he meant it when he asked me to stay so we could cuddle up to each other and have sex again in the morning. The next day he kept messaging me talking about our night, how he enjoyed it. I said we should do it again sober and he said ‘yeah definitely!’ I asked him over to mine for sex so soon and he said ‘that’s a bit risky, I’m hungover and I told you I don’t want a relationship’ then he said ‘you want us to be **** buddies’ then changed the subject. I’m probably taking this too serious as we slept together Sunday morning and it’s only Tuesday, I really wanna see him again but don’t know how to go about it, I don’t wanna push him away either. Should I try and talk to him again or leave him to come round?? I’m worried he won’t want anything to do with me now

I’ve been talking to this guy for a while now and he’s told me that due to his dad passing last year it’s mentally messed him up as he discovered his dads body, they were very close. Last night he opened up to me about things and said he doesn’t want anything serious just now and that he has attachment issues and struggles to get close to others and that it’s gonna take ‘someone special’ to change that. We had sex last night and he kept asking me to stay the night, I found this a bit weird, 

why would a guy ask you to stay the night if he has no intentions of being serious with you?? 

He also said ‘the best part of sex is waking up next to the person in the morning’ he had a drink in him last night and I asked him today if he meant what he said about staying, he said yeah he wanted sex in the morning so I replied ‘what if I didn’t want to’ and he said ‘if you didn’t want to would of meant that you still had someone to cuddle up to during the night’ he’s been messaging me all day but it’s mainly been sexual. 

My question is, if a guy doesn’t want to be serious then why ask me to stay the night and why open up to me then message me all day today? I feel like he ain’t sure what he wants I’m just confused as to where I stand?

I’m stuck in an awkward situation here. My best friend and her boyfriend set me up with his best friend and things ended badly. We were supposed to be seeing each other and he said he seen us as being a good couple but through my own fault he basically just used me for sex then left me for his sisters ex girlfriend who used to be a lesbian, he seen her for a few weeks then moved on to another girl. My friend, her boyfriend and I are all going out to a club tonight for a party and my ‘ex’ or in other words the guy I was seeing is gonna be there and I don’t want things being awkward because I’m still really angry with the way he’s treated me but can’t really tell him he can’t sit with us because his best friend, my friends boyfriend is gonna be there and I don’t wanna make a big deal out of things. Any advice on how to deal with this awkward situation? I feel like we should talk things out and agree to be friends but I don’t know if that’s what he wants since he blocked me but he knows he’ll have to see me from time to time. I HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR HIM ANYMORE

We were seeing each other for a short period of time, I met him through my best friend as he is her boyfriends, friend. We had sex and he told his friend and my friend that he seen us being together as a couple, we were supposed to be going out the other week and he messaged me 'I've been asked out on a date by a girl from my past, we used to talk and things didn't work out but now she wants to give things another try so I don't think we should meet up' then explained he never planned just to have sex then leave and how he still values me and how he liked me but they have more history. Then he said 'I'd still like if we could be friends because you're a lovely girl' then said we will see each other about. He kept asking me to be friends with him but I questioned him as he's chose this other girl over me so why would he still want to be friends with me if he's painting the picture that him and this girl are gonna be in a good relationship? He kept messaging me at the weekend "we're good friends and I don't doubt I'll see you again soon" why would he wanna stay friends if he's chosen another girl and claims they'll be so happy together?

Every guy I’ve ever met or spoken to has lied to get sex from me, even went to the lengths of buying me gifts hoping to woo me into bed but not wanting a serious relationship. Is it the fact that guys in their 20’s are only interested in sleeping around? Yet I see so many ‘happy couples’ in their 20’s but I get landed with guys who just want laid. Why do guys think it’s acceptable to lie and manipulate for sex instead of actually committing not for a lifetime but to see where things go? Ps I’m not a virgin just sick of guys wanting to take a loan of me.

For the past 2/3 days my dog has been following me everywhere when I’m home and crying when I leave him for 5-10mins. He’s eating, drinking, going out for walks, playing just the same but he always has to be close to me. Usually he’s quite an independent dog. When I’ve taken him out a walk, the past few days he’s been growling and barking at other dogs that come near me and today he even started growling and barking at a woman who was trying to clap him when he’s never been like that before. I’ve heard that dogs can sense pregnancies and illnesses but not sure it’s true? Is there anything that could be causing him to act differently?

My work are very strict when it comes to being off sick. My Bradford factor score was at 256 now I’m off sick for a week with a sickline due to conjunctivitis and tonsillitis. I’m a carer with people who have dementia and there’s no way I could have went in to work as I would be putting others at risk. Will my employer take this into consideration?? I’ve been disciplined before for being off sick in hospital and been told to attend a disciplinary meeting despite the illness being out of my hands. Is there anyway I can take this further??

I've been talking to this guy for months, he was there for me when I was having a tough time. His gran was rushed into hospital on Christmas Day and I've tried to support him. She passed away 2 weeks ago, he was carrying on as normal as if it never happened, still going to work, not taking any time off but it was the funeral last week. Ever since the funeral he's hardly been talking to me, I've tried being there for him and I told him he can talk to me about anything if he wishes to do so, he replied 'I know you're always there to talk' tonight he messaged me saying 'I need affection beyond belief' I don't understand what that means as it could mean anything from a hug, sex or something in between. I told him I'm here for him but he keeps pushing me away by ignoring me and he said 'I don't talk to anyone. I work and sleep that's all I'm capable of doing at the minute. Sorry it's not you' I understand grief affects people differently I just really wanna be there to make sure he's okay and to look after him but I don't want to come across as too full on or push him further away, is it best to leave him alone even though he's bottling things up? I said to him there's more to life than just work and his reply was 'I'm aware, just haven't figured that out yet' if I leave him alone is there a chance he will come back when he's ready or should I encourage him to open up??

I've been talking to this guy for months, he was there for me when I was having a tough time. His gran was rushed into hospital on Christmas Day and I've tried to support him. She passed away 2 weeks ago, he was carrying on as normal as if it never happened, still going to work, not taking any time off but it was the funeral last week. Ever since the funeral he's hardly been talking to me, I've tried being there for him and I told him he can talk to me about anything if he wishes to do so, he replied 'I know you're always there to talk' tonight he messaged me saying 'I need affection beyond belief' I don't understand what that means as it could mean anything from a hug, sex or something in between. I told him I'm here for him but he keeps pushing me away by ignoring me and he said 'I don't talk to anyone. I work and sleep that's all I'm capable of doing at the minute. Sorry it's not you' I understand grief affects people differently I just really wanna be there to make sure he's okay and to look after him but I don't want to come across as too full on or push him further away, is it best to leave him alone even though he's bottling things up? I said to him there's more to life than just work and his reply was 'I'm aware, just haven't figured that out yet' if I leave him alone is there a chance he will come back when he's ready or should I encourage him to open up??

I’ve been talking to this guy on and off for 8 months now. When he first started talking to me I had a lot of personal stuff going on. He asked me out on a date 6 times, he knew I was getting treated badly off this guy and he said to me ‘I promise I’d never treat you like that, I’m a gentleman. Let me take you out for dinner’ he asked me out quite a bit. He kept saying how I was good looking and funny. The moment I finally agreed to go on a date with him he blocked me from all social media for just over a week. I was left confused blaming myself then he added me back and said he had family issues with his dad and he panicked because I seemed interested in him and he didn’t want anything serious at the time. I was skeptical but chose to believe him. He asked me out for dinner a few days later but I played it cool and told him I was busy. A few weeks later he asked me if I was busy one day & I said no then he asked me if I wanted to go out a drive in his car, I said yeah that sounds good then the very next morning after he asked me he said ‘can’t do Sunday watching football with pals’ I tried confronting him asking him why he always cancels last minute and makes up excuses and he said to me ‘seems like you’ve made your mind up about me’ now he only speaks on and off. Why is he acting all weird??

I’ve been talking to this guy for 6 months now and I really like him, he said he really likes me too. He’s never said anything sexual to me in the past but last night I sent him a picture with a bit of my lace underwear showing and he said it was beautiful and asked me to show him more. I explained to him that I didn’t want him to think any less or badly of me if I did and he said ‘why would I think that? You’re stunning I would never think badly of you’ then he said ‘you’re honestly beautiful’ so we both agreed to send pictures, he didn’t pressure me in to it, I wanted to but I’m worried he thinks I’ll be easy and that he can just use me. He said ‘wanna send each other stuff then? Then if we wanna see everything then I guess we should meet up sooner rather than later?’ I explained I like him but I like him more than just sexually I don’t just wanna mess around and he said ‘believe it or not I’m serious, you’re a wee sweetheart’ but then he started asking me what I’m into in bed... we’ve been speaking like normal again today does he think badly of me??

This guy I liked has been asking me out since January, he keeps telling me how much he likes me. He asked me out on a date and I said yes then straight after he blocked me off everything I couldn't get in contact with him, I assumed he had met someone else and that I wasn't good enough. Last night he added me back on everything and messaged me saying 'I need to explain something to you, is that okay? X' I said go for it because I wanted to know why he had blocked me with no explanation. He said 'I've been having a tough time with my dad, I didn't want anything serious and I kinda bailed because you seemed interested and I didn't really know what to do because you seemed interested, that's why I blocked you. I really really liked you but was in a bad place so didn't know how to deal with the situation but I do really like you so I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings in anyway x' I told him he could have asked for space and I would have left him alone and respected that, I asked him if he was seeing someone else and he said no then he said 'can I see you this weekend? Been thinking about you a lot and I feel so bad so wanna meet up to make amends and spend some time with a girl that's pretty hot, been thinking about you loads recently xx' I dunno if he's just trying to play me and use me for one thing or if he's being genuine and using his dad as an excuse because he's confused about his feelings for me??

I've been talking on and off with this guy for 6 months, he asked me out on a date a few weeks back and when I agreed he blocked me off all social media so I couldn't get a hold of him, he never gave me an explanation I never done anything all I did was agree to meet him. A week later he unblocked me and said he had a lot of stuff going on at home with his family, he wouldn't say what but I respected his privacy. He said he felt really bad and that he had been 'thinking about me loads' and saying how he wanted to take me out for dinner to make up for his behaviour. I told him how he made me feel when he just blocked me from everything with no explanation, I blamed myself for some reason and he said again 'I've been thinking about you loads lately I genuinely feel so bad if I have hurt your feelings in anyway' I told him I didn't wanna get hurt and all he replied was 'fair enough' and ever since we haven't really spoken again. I really do like him but I feel like he's just stringing me along and thinks he can pick me up and drop me when it suits. He said how much he likes me well if he really likes me why is he behaving in such manor??

I've been talking on and off with this guy for 6 months, he asked me out on a date a few weeks back and when I agreed he blocked me off all social media so I couldn't get a hold of him, he never gave me an explanation I never done anything all I did was agree to meet him. A week later he unblocked me and said he had a lot of stuff going on at home with his family, he wouldn't say what but I respected his privacy. He said he felt really bad and that he had been 'thinking about me loads' and saying how he wanted to take me out for dinner to make up for his behaviour. I told him how he made me feel when he just blocked me from everything with no explanation, I blamed myself for some reason and he said again 'I've been thinking about you loads lately I genuinely feel so bad if I have hurt your feelings in anyway' I told him I didn't wanna get hurt and all he replied was 'fair enough' and ever since we haven't really spoken again. I really do like him but I feel like he's just stringing me along and thinks he can pick me up and drop me when it suits. He said how much he likes me well if he really likes me why is he behaving in such manor??

te and when I agreed to it he blocked me off every single social media for a week with no explanation. When he unblocked me he apologised and said he needed to explain to me if I would let him. He said he had been having a lot of problems at home with his parents (he’s 20 years old) he said he got scared because I seemed interested in him and he didn’t want anything serious at the time but he said he still likes me and that he has been thinking about me a lot recently, does this mean he still wants to go out on a date?? I really like him but don’t wanna end up getting hurt!

This guy I liked has been asking me out since January, he keeps telling me how he likes me. He asked me out on a date, I said yes straight after he blocked me off everything I couldn't get in contact with him, I assumed he had met someone else and that I wasn't good enough. Last night he added me back on everything and messaged me saying 'I need to explain something to you, is that okay? X' I said go for it because I wanted to know why he had blocked me with no explanation. He said 'I've been having a tough time with my dad, I didn't want anything serious and I kinda bailed because you seemed interested and I didn't really know what to do because you seemed interested, that's why I blocked you. I really really liked you but was in a bad place so didn't know how to deal with the situation but I do really like you so I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings in anyway x' I told him he could have asked for space and I would have left him alone and respected that, I asked him if he was seeing someone else and he said no then he said 'can I see you this weekend? Been thinking about you a lot and I feel so bad so wanna meet up to make amends and spend some time with a girl that's pretty hot, been thinking about you loads recently xx' I dunno if he's just trying to play me and use me for one thing or if he's being genuine. His family are high flyers and he went to a private school all his life. His dad owns his own businesses and wants him to graduate as a lawyer yet he doesn't want to