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Has he lost interest already?
We went on our first date, it went well and we kissed. He said he wants me to meet his friends sometime. That night he said we should meet up again after I’ve done my assessments as I’m kinda busy. The next few days he went quiet, said a few sentences but he’d message me first then just ignore me, I just assumed he’s not a big texter. Today I asked him if he’s free this week to meet up as he’s off work and told me he didn’t have plans last week. All of a sudden he’s told me ‘I’ve already got plans those days, maybe next week’ so I replied ‘okay, if you don’t want to meet up again that’s fine you can tell me’ and he ignored me so I’m assuming he has no intention of seeing me again as he only said ‘maybe next week’ and made no effort to respond to me. I’d rather he was honest. Some of my friends think he’s playing hard to get but I think he’s lost interest? Is he ghosting me or playing hard to get?
1 Answer
- 1 year ago
It’s hard to tell, I think we’ve all been in this situation. Oddly the best thing to do is to just STOP- stop thinking about what it means, stop analysing your previous dates and messages, stop thinking about what you can text him to get some clarify etc.
Just do you- spend time with the girls and keep busy, avoid watching your phone continuously in case you get a text. If you were the one which sent the last message just leave it.
Bottom line is if he wants to speak to you then he will, if he doesn’t then there is your answer. If you keep trying to contact either by texting or ‘liking’ photos or statuses etc then you’ll scare him away.