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We hooked up, don’t know what to do now?
We used to talk every day, he opened up to me then out blue told me that he has trouble getting close to anyone cos of the past and he pushes people away. He told me he doesn’t know what he wants right now and doesn’t want a relationship. We both had a drink and had sex, he kept asking me to stay the night but I left as I thought he’d regret asking me to stay in the morning with him not wanting anything serious. He said he meant it when he asked me to stay so we could cuddle up to each other and have sex again in the morning. The next day he kept messaging me talking about our night, how he enjoyed it. I said we should do it again sober and he said ‘yeah definitely!’ I asked him over to mine for sex so soon and he said ‘that’s a bit risky, I’m hungover and I told you I don’t want a relationship’ then he said ‘you want us to be **** buddies’ then changed the subject. I’m probably taking this too serious as we slept together Sunday morning and it’s only Tuesday, I really wanna see him again but don’t know how to go about it, I don’t wanna push him away either. Should I try and talk to him again or leave him to come round?? I’m worried he won’t want anything to do with me now
3 Answers
- 1 year ago
He was upfront about only wanting you for sex, because he's sweet talked his way in to someones bed in the past and found they wanted a serious relationship soon after. He then also found they never wanted to leave and were going to keep pushing for commitment, despite the fact he had zero interest in it.
So this time, he's clearing his conscience by telling you his intention up front. He wants to sleep with multiple people. He doesn't want a relationship with you, he just want to sleep with you. You bugging him to come back is counter-productive and making him feel smothered. Don't contact him until he gives you a booty call. That's all you are to him. That's what you've signed up for.
- Anonymous1 year ago
This is why you don't hook up. He got you and tossed you back in like a fish. Why do you think it is called a hookup. Once you are done you are done. Try to value yourself more and learn from this. I'm in my 20s and a virgin. I don't plan to have sex till I'm married.
- Anonymous1 year ago
Well, this is what happens when you let a guy use you for sex. Why would you do this? Women always end up hurt. Sex is not a casual thing and you are allowing a man to be in your most private places and touch you in a serious personal way. Sex is so much more than physical and when it is used like this one or both people get hurt. This is why most say wait for marriage.
When someone uses sex casually like you did it shows you think little value of yourself due to low self-esteem. As a mom of two daughters, I have worked hard to let them know they are special and a man needs to earn the right to touch them. Every women should be treated special and every man should value a woman and see that she is something worth waiting for.
As for trying to talk to him again I'd say no. He used you, he got what he wanted and he is done. If he cared even a tiny bit about you he would not have had sex with you.