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How to tell if he likes me?

We went on our first date yesterday. He was meant to go see his football team play - he said he never misses a game but wanted to see me. He took me out for dinner and paid for it, I offered to pay my half. He also said that next week I should come on a night out with him and meet his friends. He kept touching my hands. We also had our first kiss on our first date but nothing else. He said he wants to see me again but he doesn’t message me much. We do get on in person but it annoys me the fact he sometimes ignores my messages and only replies a few times a day maybe I’m making a big deal but I do like someone to text throughout the day, it lets me know I’m on his mind and vice versa. Maybe I’m being too harsh I just don’t know if he does like me...? 

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  • 1 year ago
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    Why don't you bring this up in a conversation when YOU ARE ON A DATE or In Person?

    If you are scared too, do you think he maybe scared too?

    Meeting and Dating someone DOES NOT mean you are good or confident with the opposite sex.  Isn't that why you haven't expressed any of this TO HIM??

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    If a guy takes you out on a date, don't offer to pay. Why would you pay a dime? He asked, he ought to treat you to a nice date.

    Meanwhile, don't chase the guy by texting him half to death. Don't text him first! This is a sign you're too available and maybe even desperate. Let him text you. And if you two continue to go out, don't be available all the time. Give him a run for his money! If a guy likes you, he's going to pursue you and he will text first. Let him miss you.

    Honestly, i have been with a guy for several years. I'm not always available when he wants to get together. I give him the chance to miss me. And he does when i'm not there at his every whim.

  • 1 year ago

    You only hd your first date yesterday and you expect him to message you throughout the day? He might like you but you are going to run him off with this over the top need for attention. Most normal people don't have time for that.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    You're being a bit obsessive over this.  In a word: Chill.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Are you looking for dates here, for occasional outings with a pleasant companion? Or are you looking for someone to entertain you in those odd moments throughout the day when you find yourself wanting occupation or amusement. This gentleman has indicated that he is available to your for occasional outings, but doesn't share your enthusiasm for texting back and forth. 

    Take it or leave it. Badgering him to get involved in your "I want to be texting all the time" activities will drive him away. 

    You can't KNOW how much someone you're dating likes you. Either he likes you enough to keep seeing you or he doesn't, and that's as good as it gets. You live with the uncertainty unless you want to drive everyone away with demands for constant reassurance. 

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